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Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:55 am to rintintin
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:55 am to rintintin
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she's a beautiful girl, loving, caring, 100% trustworthy and loya
How old are you OP? If the above is true it sounds like the problem is you and not her and you have still have some maturing to do. You are doing her a favor it sounds like. Let her go find a dude who is comfortable with himself.
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Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:55 am to rintintin
Ok, then list the bad things. All you've given us is that she is great and you are breaking up with her. Sounds like a stupid decision without all the details.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:55 am to rintintin
You definitely just listed more cons than you did pros.
Do you have periscope?
Do you have periscope?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:55 am to RhodeDawg
I can't wait to swoop in for that rebound sex! Gonna be glorious!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:57 am to rintintin
Why don't you tell her all the things you just said on here?? Sometimes people need to hear that they're acting crazy and should get back to reality
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:57 am to rintintin
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:57 am to rintintin
You could have led off with some of this info.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:58 am to rintintin
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The majority boil down to one thing, daddy issues. She was abused by her father and has severe insecurity due to it. It affects our relationship immensely. She's the kind of person that needs constant reassurance, constant coddling. I'm the complete opposite. She's always questioning our relationship due to this and it drives me crazy. It turns into a crying session almost weekly. Just a hamster wheel of the same shite. It also affects her relationship with others. She can be very spiteful to other people, which is why she has few friends. The close friends she has will even keep their distance due to this. She doesn't do much on her own, so it's either with me or nothing, which means she gets spiteful at me when I do stuff with my friends and she can't due to work or whatever else. I honestly don't like her around with my friends because of her preponderance of getting pissed off for miniscule things. That's a few. Also financial issues and irresponsibility elsewhere in her life. And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.
So she's the exact opposite of how you described her in the OP.
This is hilarious!
Lemme guess...this is all because of her. You have zero issues, amirite?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:58 am to rintintin
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The majority boil down to one thing, daddy issues. She was abused by her father and has severe insecurity due to it. It affects our relationship immensely. She's the kind of person that needs constant reassurance, constant coddling. I'm the complete opposite. She's always questioning our relationship due to this and it drives me crazy. It turns into a crying session almost weekly. Just a hamster wheel of the same shite. It also affects her relationship with others. She can be very spiteful to other people, which is why she has few friends. The close friends she has will even keep their distance due to this. She doesn't do much on her own, so it's either with me or nothing, which means she gets spiteful at me when I do stuff with my friends and she can't due to work or whatever else. I honestly don't like her around with my friends because of her preponderance of getting pissed off for miniscule things. That's a few. Also financial issues and irresponsibility elsewhere in her life. And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.
Now that actually sound miserable...why have you held on thus far?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:59 am to rintintin
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The majority boil down to one thing, daddy issues.
She was abused by her father and has severe insecurity due to it.
It affects our relationship immensely. She's the kind of person that needs constant reassurance, constant coddling. I'm the complete opposite.
She's always questioning our relationship due to this and it drives me crazy. It turns into a crying session almost weekly. Just a hamster wheel of the same shite.
It also affects her relationship with others. She can be very spiteful to other people, which is why she has few friends. The close friends she has will even keep their distance due to this.
She doesn't do much on her own, so it's either with me or nothing, which means she gets spiteful at me when I do stuff with my friends and she can't due to work or whatever else.
I honestly don't like her around with my friends because of her preponderance of getting pissed off for miniscule things.
That's a few. Also financial issues and irresponsibility elsewhere in her life.
Oh ok, so she's awesome other than her being psycho and irresponsible and hateful
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And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.
No matter what, this is going to be the end result, whether now or later
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:59 am to meauxjeaux2
Oddly enough, that list is something you should be able to pick up within a year or so if not sooner. Why wait 4 years?
Sounds like to me your bros got into your head. You mentioned how you now tend to keep your friends away from her.
Sounds like to me your bros got into your head. You mentioned how you now tend to keep your friends away from her.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:59 am to rintintin
Doesn't sound like she's the problem bro, sounds like you need some Lexapro. Don't ruin the only good thing you've got going. Big mistake.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 8:59 am to Steadyhands
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why have you held on thus far?
Because he can't do better.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:00 am to ThatMakesSense
I think this is really the case lol!
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:00 am to Steadyhands
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Now that actually sound miserable...why have you held on thus far?
Real question is: Why didn't he mention all these negatives from the get go?
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:01 am to mizzoukills
He probably emotionally abuses her. Giving her mixed signals, excluding her from your life, etc.
No wonder she is "batshit crazy". You are an abusive a-hole who has manipulated this girl for years. Do her a favor and break up with her.
You deserve someone who worships the ground you walk on but doesn't care when you don't return the same feelings. Good luck finding that.
No wonder she is "batshit crazy". You are an abusive a-hole who has manipulated this girl for years. Do her a favor and break up with her.
You deserve someone who worships the ground you walk on but doesn't care when you don't return the same feelings. Good luck finding that.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:01 am to mizzoukills
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Real question is: Why didn't he mention all these negatives from the get go?
thread wouldn't have been as entertaining.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:01 am to AnonymousTiger
I didn't want to get on here and just bash her. She has a good heart.
No, I admit I have problems. Mainly with commitment and emotions. I'm very introverted and tend to not express my emotions, which is just a recipe for disaster with a person like her who wheres their emotions on their sleeve and needs reassurance.
It's why we aren't a good match.
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Lemme guess...this is all because of her. You have zero issues, amirite?
No, I admit I have problems. Mainly with commitment and emotions. I'm very introverted and tend to not express my emotions, which is just a recipe for disaster with a person like her who wheres their emotions on their sleeve and needs reassurance.
It's why we aren't a good match.
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:02 am to rintintin
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She's the kind of person that needs constant reassurance, constant coddling.
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always questioning our relationship due to this and it drives me crazy. It turns into a crying session almost weekly.
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She can be very spiteful to other people, which is why she has few friends. The close friends she has will even keep their distance due to this.
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She doesn't do much on her own, so it's either with me or nothing, which means she gets spiteful at me when I do stuff with my friends
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I honestly don't like her around with my friends
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financial issues and irresponsibility
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And sex life. I don't think we've had sex in a month.
LINK
Posted on 12/1/16 at 9:02 am to mizzoukills
Probably made half that shite up Killz so he felt better about himself lol.
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