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re: Spinoff: Has your SO ever caught you cheating?
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:47 pm to Cajun Revolution
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:47 pm to Cajun Revolution
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How can you say you love someone and then decide to move on. That's unfathomable to me
lol. unfathomable?
people change. 2 words that sum it up.
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Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:50 pm to Lester Earl
What if you love someone and they break up with you? Instead of moving on and fall in in love again I should just stalk and force her to love me since saying it more to OE person is unfathomable.
If your love dies is it tombstone or bust
If your love dies is it tombstone or bust
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:51 pm to Cajun Revolution
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love is constant and consistent. And enduring
I would say the only love that truly follows that....is God's love for us.
Because it describes something that is perfection....and you know us humans are incapable of true perfection.
Like les said.....people do change.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:51 pm to Lester Earl
If I commit to somebody, I'm there. Thick and thin. No two ways about it.
Why I have such good friends and avoid much of the BS relationships most have dealt with. I tell girl I love her, that means I'm gonna be with you until the end. 0 loves given thus far, and had I said that, I'd know I was lying from the jump.
Why I have such good friends and avoid much of the BS relationships most have dealt with. I tell girl I love her, that means I'm gonna be with you until the end. 0 loves given thus far, and had I said that, I'd know I was lying from the jump.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:51 pm to Cajun Revolution
That's unconditional love.. There definitely is a difference.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:53 pm to lsunurse
Cop out excuse. Here is my love but my love is contingent. Keep your loves. I have no use for them.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:54 pm to goldenbadger08
There is no difference to me. Love is love. Otherwise, avoid the emotion.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:54 pm to Cajun Revolution
What if the person no longer respects and cherishes your love? Just be a punching bag forever?
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:54 pm to Cajun Revolution
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If I commit to somebody, I'm there. Thick and thin. No two ways about it.
yea, same here. Or would at least like to think that,
but in reality, there is a huge variable: the other person.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:55 pm to fnchdrms87
High school girlfriend found out I cheated on her while on senior trip, some guy that was with us thought he had a chance with her so he told her about it.
I denied it but pretty sure she didn't believe me
I denied it but pretty sure she didn't believe me
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:56 pm to yellowfin
Hey..want to hit ur business up.get your email?
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:57 pm to Cajun Revolution
So if my SO starts doing meth, cheating and becomes abusive to me....I'm supposed to just keep on blindly loving him?
You have to love yourself first before you can really love someone else in a healthy way. Allowing yourself to be treated like that is not loving yourself.
You have to love yourself first before you can really love someone else in a healthy way. Allowing yourself to be treated like that is not loving yourself.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:59 pm to Lester Earl
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lol. unfathomable?
I get what he's saying. It just gets thrown around so much....going through it right now. Girl tells me she loves me, but we have only been dating for 2 months.
People can say "I love you" and it seems to be of little consequence to them, likes it's just something you are supposed to say after fricking for a couple months.
It's not that just sex isn't special anymore....nothing is..."I will always love you"...shite like that...profound claims with impunity
just because use you can say it, doesn't mean you care more about the person than someone who does not.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 6:59 pm to Cajun Revolution
I understand what you're saying but I disagree. I loved my last ex but we were both just bad for each other. It sucked to break up but it was best.
Doesn't mean we didn't love each other though
Doesn't mean we didn't love each other though
Posted on 6/15/14 at 7:00 pm to fightingtiger2335
Not at all. But you be open arms about it. If they come back, good. If not, you move on. But that doesn't change your feelings for that person. You still feel the same way.
And Les is right. The other person is the variable but in my mind, I'm a constant. I can control my emotions and my actions. That's it. But even if they hurt me, badly, I'd never write them off or leave.
Just my two cents. I've had two girls tell me they loved me. I responded with "no you don't". Then they'd get upset and I'd respond with, I cheat on you tomorrow. Would we still be together. They both responded no. I said, then don't ever tell me that again until that answers yes.
I'm sorry, I'm just different.
And Les is right. The other person is the variable but in my mind, I'm a constant. I can control my emotions and my actions. That's it. But even if they hurt me, badly, I'd never write them off or leave.
Just my two cents. I've had two girls tell me they loved me. I responded with "no you don't". Then they'd get upset and I'd respond with, I cheat on you tomorrow. Would we still be together. They both responded no. I said, then don't ever tell me that again until that answers yes.
I'm sorry, I'm just different.
Posted on 6/15/14 at 7:02 pm to lsunurse
quote:"Yes, otherwise it's not love." -Cajun Revolution
So if my SO starts doing meth, cheating and becomes abusive to me....I'm supposed to just keep on blindly loving him?
This post was edited on 6/15/14 at 7:03 pm
Posted on 6/15/14 at 7:04 pm to Cajun Revolution
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And Les is right. The other person is the variable but in my mind, I'm a constant. I can control my emotions and my actions. That's it. But even if they hurt me, badly, I'd never write them off or leave.
“I still love the people I’ve loved, even if I cross the street to avoid them.”
? Uma Thurman
Posted on 6/15/14 at 7:04 pm to Cajun Revolution
But if love s constant and they leave you or don't come back then you can never love again because you can only have love for that one person?
If you have open arms after their mistakes eventually you get taken advantage of.had a family member who was so in love he followed his wife into so many things that got them in trouble. He couldn't leave er because that was his love. Everyone could see she was terrible for him but him.
Be careful about loving blindly
If you have open arms after their mistakes eventually you get taken advantage of.had a family member who was so in love he followed his wife into so many things that got them in trouble. He couldn't leave er because that was his love. Everyone could see she was terrible for him but him.
Be careful about loving blindly
Posted on 6/15/14 at 7:06 pm to lsunurse
Then as your spouse I'd have to reevaluate our relationship because that's not love.
In the Bible there is a story about a man who was told to marry a woman who chose to prostitute after they had married. She left him and went her way. After she was all used up, she had nothing and was destitute. He went found her, cleaned her up and took her back.
I've always used that story as my perspective for love and marriage.
In the Bible there is a story about a man who was told to marry a woman who chose to prostitute after they had married. She left him and went her way. After she was all used up, she had nothing and was destitute. He went found her, cleaned her up and took her back.
I've always used that story as my perspective for love and marriage.
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