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re: So I'm suppose to help a woman move UPDATED #6

Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:07 pm to
Posted by Hold That Tiger 10
Member since Oct 2013
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:07 pm to
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I hear stories from guys I work with on how some of their friends act and the things they do. If my friends acted that way and then asked for help I would probably be the same way. No thanks, I’m good


Then are those people really your friends?
Posted by Langland
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:08 pm to
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And $100 says she won't have anything boxed up when you get there.



That's most likely true.

Posted by Hold That Tiger 10
Member since Oct 2013
24638 posts
Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:11 pm to
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Like I said, I'm tired of this shite


You sound like a shitty person to me. You should have just said no from the beginning if this was your feelings.

Instead you kept trying to hint at telling her no, and came cry about it on a message board. You seem like a beta bitch.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:12 pm to
Do it or don’t

Wtf are you making this a three day thread?
Posted by Langland
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:33 pm to
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Do it or don’t



Well, those are basically my options.

The issue is I decided to do it, but being a simple minded woman, she didn't like the range of days I offered to help.

In my mind, that gave me a potential out, because only an a-hole or woman would pull that shite on someone whose help they needed.

quote:

Wtf are you making this a three day thread?


I'm sorry this is a three day thread and isn't about you.
Posted by LaBR4
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Member since Sep 2005
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:36 pm to
No text or anything after her voicemail?

How large are her breasts? and she is in good shape?

Just tell her you're doing Hurricane Barry clean up.
This post was edited on 7/16/19 at 10:38 pm
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:40 pm to
Looks like she asked you to help on Thursday which you offered so why are you keeping it going?
Posted by 19
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:44 pm to
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"in between jobs"


Text her this pearl of wisdom
Posted by Langland
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Member since Apr 2014
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:53 pm to
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No text or anything after her voicemail?


No. I'm gonna probably help her. Mainly because, at this point, it feels like I'm abusing a special needs child. I never realized how truly mentally helpless she is.

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How large are her breasts? and she is in good shape?

Maybe small Ds. I recall when I was like 12 and she was 22 or 23 and we were sitting in the back seat of the car and she was wearing a low v cut dresses. I can remember looking at her tits. And in the reflection of the window her dad caught me looking and I could see the grin on his face. She was oblivious to it all, just like today.

And yes, she's in pretty decent shape for her age. Not the best face, but it's ok, would be better with makeup. She looks pretty good in jeans. The big plus for her is she dresses really well.

Posted by MojoGuyPan
Intercession City, Florida
Member since Jun 2018
2797 posts
Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:54 pm to
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The last time I did this shite for her, she paid for like $10 worth of gas but I used like a tank of gas to help her move her shite. I expect no different this time.


No wonder she is persistent, you set precedent letting her use you and your truck to move a few times in the past.

You're a door mat and as retarded as Doug Williams.

Posted by TIGER2
Mandeville.La
Member since Jan 2006
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:54 pm to
Tell her your girlfriend said no.
Posted by Paige
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 10:56 pm to
No you’re going to help her and keeping this going because you’re an attention whore
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77840 posts
Posted on 7/16/19 at 11:24 pm to
She's in her thirties or older, unemployed and not married? Something is wrong.
Posted by jamiegla1
Member since Aug 2016
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 11:27 pm to
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Like I said, you need to read the book on Boundaries


Name of the book?
Posted by Langland
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Member since Apr 2014
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 11:27 pm to
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Looks like she asked you to help on Thursday which you offered so why are you keeping it going?



Yes, I originally offered to help her from Wednesday afternoon to Friday.

She turned that offer down by asking me to help on Monday and then Tuesday. And note she never gave any excuse as to why she couldn't do the days I offered to help.

I saw this as an out, and since I didn't want to help her anyway I texted her:

I'm not going to be available to help you move. I suggest using a moving service or renting a U-Haul.

And being the dingbat she is, she texts back:

Her: Not even on Wednesday?
And then later she wanted me to do it Thursday.

Both days I originally offered to help. This means she was fricking available on Wednesday and Thursday all along. But being a fricking dingbat women, she thought she would do what was most convenient for her by asking me to do it on Monday and then Tuesday.

Like I said, only an a-hole or simple minded manipulative* women would do this.



My only regret is not texting back: Nope. Not even on Wednesday.

That probably would have been the end of it, but I underestimated how oblivious she was to the boom that I laid on her. And the boom being: I'm not going to be available to help you move. I suggest using a moving service or renting a U-Haul.

Most idiots would have got the message on that one.

*See my "why not both" post on the next page.
This post was edited on 7/17/19 at 12:02 am
Posted by GeauxxxTigers23
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Member since Apr 2013
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 11:29 pm to
Nobody gives a frick about your lame moving story.
Posted by Langland
Trumplandia
Member since Apr 2014
15382 posts
Posted on 7/16/19 at 11:30 pm to
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No you’re going to help her and keeping this going because you’re an attention whore


Who's the attention whore?
Posted by Langland
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Member since Apr 2014
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Posted on 7/16/19 at 11:32 pm to
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She's in her thirties or older, unemployed and not married? Something is wrong.


She's not unemployed.

I'm not joking about the simple minded dingbat stuff. I would describe her as smart-stupid. You can be having a normal conversation with her and then say something that will completely go over her head. Kind of like Paige.
This post was edited on 7/16/19 at 11:35 pm
Posted by Jake88
Member since Apr 2005
77840 posts
Posted on 7/16/19 at 11:33 pm to
She's not a "dingbat" or "oblivious", she's manipulative and tried to get you to help sooner. Once you didn't budge she went along with your suggestion and appears to have you ready to move her.

Who is the dingbat?
Posted by biglego
San Francisco
Member since Nov 2007
83000 posts
Posted on 7/16/19 at 11:39 pm to
It’s amazing this thread is still going. Anyway, since you told her you could do Wed through Friday, you should honor your word. Be a man of your word and next time be upfront and honest.
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