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re: Should I be ashamed?

Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:06 pm to
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:06 pm to
quote:

She said my first name followed by "what are you talking about?" I just looked in his direction for a moment and walked away.


I've had enough.

Uncle:

Grow. A. Pair.
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 11:06 pm
Posted by mikrit54
Robeline
Member since Oct 2013
8664 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:07 pm to
So I'm guessing you won't be signing each other's yearbooks now?
Posted by TheDrunkenTigah
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2011
18124 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:08 pm to
My final question is, could she have legitimate reason to think it would be no biggie if she slept around?
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:08 pm to
Yeah. You should be ashamed. You should have either confronted her straight up or said nothing. And you didn't have to make a scene at the party to talk to her.

You need to sort out some assertiveness issues.
This post was edited on 6/29/14 at 11:09 pm
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
8892 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:08 pm to
quote:

Ok, Uncle. Looks like you posted in February that you were FWB and that your relationship had been "vague" for a couple of months


Good call. Same girl that I was wondering what to get her for Valentine's Day.

We went on a trip together in early April. At the end of the trip is when I sought clarity and backed off after the "let's see how it goes".
Posted by ZacAttack
The Land Mass
Member since Oct 2012
6416 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:09 pm to
11 pages of a pissed off OP and no pics of this chick? Seems fishy.
Posted by oR33Do
Tuscaloosa
Member since Oct 2012
13561 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:10 pm to
Girl breaks plans off to fool around with someone else. No explanations needed.

Though I would've been long gone if I had the serious relationship talk and gotten a 'let's see how it goes'. That's code for you're not what I am looking for right now so I'll keep you around until someone better comes around.

Most women aren't that hard to understand if you pay attention.

Dude wasn't going to change her mind until she was ready to settle for less. (In her mind)
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:10 pm to
quote:

She said my first name followed by "what are you talking about?" I just looked in his direction for a moment and walked away


You're really jumping to conclusions here.
Posted by Puck82
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23947 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:10 pm to
Alright. Does this chick live alone or does she have a roommate?
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
8892 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:12 pm to
quote:

Alright. Does this chick live alone or does she have a roommate?


She lives alone in a house with her dog.
Posted by UncleLester
West of the Mississippi
Member since Aug 2008
8892 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:13 pm to
quote:

Dude wasn't going to change her mind until she was ready to settle for less. (In her mind)


Pretty obvious that I was an option.
Posted by JudgeHolden
Gila River
Member since Jan 2008
18566 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:14 pm to


Is this you?
Posted by crimsonsaint
Member since Nov 2009
37657 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:15 pm to
quote:

Dude she broke off plans with him to frick another guy. Hell fricking no don't hear that bitch out. She treated him like a fricking doormat.


I'll assume like the rest of us that you don't know jack shite about this girl. And you don't know jack shite about what happened at her house.

If it was me, I'm finding out for certain what happened before ending that relationship.
Posted by LSU fan 246
Member since Oct 2005
90567 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:17 pm to
The making up shite was lame because you basically painted yourself in a corner. If she calls you on wtf are you talking about and you talk about his car there, you have no out.

What if she was out with a group of people and they got fricked up and they stayed at her house? His car being there doesn't mean she is getting railed.
Posted by ZacAttack
The Land Mass
Member since Oct 2012
6416 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:17 pm to
Actually it sounds like you weren't an option, you were a free meal. It happens, move on, learn a valuable life lesson.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:19 pm to
quote:

Pretty obvious that I was an option.


Happens to the best of us... Don't mope around too long, obviously she's not worth it... Even though it's hurtful, it's still a good lesson learned... Hope all works out for you.
Posted by bencoleman
RIP 7/19
Member since Feb 2009
37887 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:19 pm to
No you shouldn't be ashamed, you handled it better than I would have. Her having both of you guys at that BBQ is fricking sick. The more I think about it the more disgusted I get. Again it is time to move on. Don't take calls, Don't take messages, If you have to tell her anything tell her that her pussy stinks and you can't handle it anymore because it reeks of dead fish.
Posted by Puck82
Baton Rouge
Member since Mar 2009
23947 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:20 pm to
quote:

What if she was out with a group of people and they got fricked up and they stayed at her house? His car being there doesn't mean she is getting railed.


Then she would of told him about it. People don't hide innocent things.
Posted by oR33Do
Tuscaloosa
Member since Oct 2012
13561 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:21 pm to
Yeah hence settle for less, which you quoted.

Are you under 25 man?

A lot of this was stuff I learned during those years.

You gotta learn the rules of engagement man.

A lot women "want" that Disney fairy tale story because it was fed to them from birth. If you don't match up you will purely be used for ego, money, and time filler.

Easiest way to counter that is to play by your rules and not allow their interests to be #1 whenever they want.

Ignore them, date other women, and she'll be eating out of your hand or pretty much frick off.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 6/29/14 at 11:22 pm to
1) she broke of plans with him
2) she said she had a lame weekend
3) guy's car was at her house
4) guy shows up to party and seeks her out
5) she has no rebuttal when he mentions guy fricking her

Are you missing something? Or are you in the same situation?
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