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Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:57 pm to weagle99
Because that's their personal choice to do so.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:58 pm to Mattwells90
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Similar to the OP's?
Obviously not. I crossed that bridge a long time ago.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:58 pm to UpToPar
And it's my choice to reply to an open forum asking of opinions.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:59 pm to northshorebamaman
North shore
Never mind. I don't care to know on second thought.
Never mind. I don't care to know on second thought.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:00 pm to Mattwells90
I didn't ask you why you replied to the thread, just why the decision the OP is contemplating bothers you so much.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:00 pm to Mattwells90
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Never mind. I don't care to know on second thought.
If you've noticed, I haven't been keen to share. I've ignored your requests on the specifics of my sex life. I'm sorry.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:02 pm to UpToPar
@UpToPar
Maybe because I don't like seeing marriages fail and overwhelmingly people who partake in swinging end up divorced. Maybe I'd like to see less broken families in America. Maybe I actually give a damn about other people.
Maybe because I don't like seeing marriages fail and overwhelmingly people who partake in swinging end up divorced. Maybe I'd like to see less broken families in America. Maybe I actually give a damn about other people.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:02 pm to white perch
I'm not reading 8 pages, but as a wife in your wife's position, these are my suggestions: have her set the rules. What's ok for her to do, you to do, and the other girl to do. Maybe have a little fantasy time. Watch a lot of FMF porn. If she's still ok with it.........
4. Profit?
4. Profit?
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:03 pm to northshorebamaman
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If you've noticed I haven't been keen to share.
The irony here. I hope you don't miss it.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:03 pm to Mattwells90
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overwhelmingly people who partake in swinging end up divorced.
Link?
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:05 pm to northshorebamaman
Yeah, I'd like to see some evidence there too.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:05 pm to Mattwells90
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Maybe because I don't like seeing marriages fail and overwhelmingly people who partake in swinging end up divorced. Maybe I'd like to see less broken families in America. Maybe I actually give a damn about other people.
I'm willing to be the divorce rate for swingers vs. non swingers is a lot closer than you think and may even be opposite of what you think.
Regardless, I'm not so naive to think that people only derive happiness by living their life the way I deem appropriate. Too each their own though.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:06 pm to Mattwells90
I shouldn't have to explain to you what's wrong with citing that blog as proof. 
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:08 pm to Mattwells90
So not an actual scientific study, but one counselors observation?
Yeah............no.
Yeah............no.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:08 pm to UpToPar
Divorce is a major problem. One of the main causes is sexual issues. I'm not singling out swingers. I don't applaud anything, such as going into heavy debt, that could harm marriages.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:09 pm to Mattwells90
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Divorce is a major problem. One of the main causes is sexual issues.
It's called cheating.
I don't have that problem.
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:10 pm to Mattwells90
What about if swinging actually helps sustain a marriage. Would you condone it then?
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:12 pm to UpToPar
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What about if swinging actually helps sustain a marriage. Would you condone it then?
I've never done it and just knowing my wife, I never will do it. I know of three other couples who have tried either swinging or bringing in another woman. In all three instances the marriage was first damaged and finally destroyed. Take it for what it's worth.
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