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Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:57 pm to
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
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Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:57 pm to
Ain't it funny how people ask opinions on here and if you don't support their opinions you're the jerk and shouldn't pay attention to others.
Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
22812 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:57 pm to
Because that's their personal choice to do so.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
37457 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:58 pm to
quote:

Similar to the OP's?

Obviously not. I crossed that bridge a long time ago.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:58 pm to
And it's my choice to reply to an open forum asking of opinions.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 10:59 pm to
North shore



Never mind. I don't care to know on second thought.
Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
22812 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:00 pm to
I didn't ask you why you replied to the thread, just why the decision the OP is contemplating bothers you so much.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
37457 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:00 pm to
quote:

Never mind. I don't care to know on second thought.

If you've noticed, I haven't been keen to share. I've ignored your requests on the specifics of my sex life. I'm sorry.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:02 pm to
@UpToPar



Maybe because I don't like seeing marriages fail and overwhelmingly people who partake in swinging end up divorced. Maybe I'd like to see less broken families in America. Maybe I actually give a damn about other people.
Posted by CoCo311
Anyone want my shirt??
Member since Jun 2012
16770 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:02 pm to
I'm not reading 8 pages, but as a wife in your wife's position, these are my suggestions: have her set the rules. What's ok for her to do, you to do, and the other girl to do. Maybe have a little fantasy time. Watch a lot of FMF porn. If she's still ok with it.........
4. Profit?
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:03 pm to
quote:

If you've noticed I haven't been keen to share.




The irony here. I hope you don't miss it.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
37457 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:03 pm to
quote:

overwhelmingly people who partake in swinging end up divorced.

Link?
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:05 pm to
quote:

Link?




LINK
Posted by CoCo311
Anyone want my shirt??
Member since Jun 2012
16770 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:05 pm to
Yeah, I'd like to see some evidence there too.
Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
22812 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:05 pm to
quote:

Maybe because I don't like seeing marriages fail and overwhelmingly people who partake in swinging end up divorced. Maybe I'd like to see less broken families in America. Maybe I actually give a damn about other people.


I'm willing to be the divorce rate for swingers vs. non swingers is a lot closer than you think and may even be opposite of what you think.

Regardless, I'm not so naive to think that people only derive happiness by living their life the way I deem appropriate. Too each their own though.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
37457 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:06 pm to
I shouldn't have to explain to you what's wrong with citing that blog as proof.
Posted by CoCo311
Anyone want my shirt??
Member since Jun 2012
16770 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:08 pm to
So not an actual scientific study, but one counselors observation?
Yeah............no.
Posted by Mattwells90
Lafayette
Member since Jan 2013
3562 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:08 pm to
Divorce is a major problem. One of the main causes is sexual issues. I'm not singling out swingers. I don't applaud anything, such as going into heavy debt, that could harm marriages.
Posted by northshorebamaman
Cochise County AZ
Member since Jul 2009
37457 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:09 pm to
quote:

Divorce is a major problem. One of the main causes is sexual issues.

It's called cheating.

I don't have that problem.
Posted by UpToPar
Baton Rouge
Member since Sep 2008
22812 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:10 pm to
What about if swinging actually helps sustain a marriage. Would you condone it then?
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
71915 posts
Posted on 6/13/14 at 11:12 pm to
quote:

What about if swinging actually helps sustain a marriage. Would you condone it then?


I've never done it and just knowing my wife, I never will do it. I know of three other couples who have tried either swinging or bringing in another woman. In all three instances the marriage was first damaged and finally destroyed. Take it for what it's worth.
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