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re: OT parents: children birthday party etiquette

Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:23 pm to
Posted by CorkSoaker
Member since Oct 2008
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Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:23 pm to
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Just don't go, it is a 1 year old. It should be a family get together. Chances are you don't want to foster this relationship, because the Mom is probably a little over the top nuts. IMHO


That's what I did with the last 1 year old invite I got. Plus it was right in the middle of her nap time.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
156578 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:23 pm to
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I always love people without kids who post in these types of threads. Always humorous to see people who have absolutely no clue.

What's awesome is that every parent posting in here is just about split 50/50 on bringing the kid versus leaving it at home.

So yeah...that statement about having absolutely no idea? That has more to do with the person than whether or not they have kids. Good job.
Posted by Wtodd
Tampa, FL
Member since Oct 2013
68544 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:23 pm to
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I always love people without kids who post in these types of threads. Always humorous to see people who have absolutely no clue. I would bring the 4 year old

Yet you both had the same suggestion
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:24 pm to
Watch out Tigerfred....she already said calling is a stupid idea


Unless you have children...then she'll think it was a great idea
Posted by tigerfan in bamaland
Back Home now
Member since Sep 2006
61540 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:24 pm to
Drop both kids off. Come back hours later to collect.
Posted by CT
Kate Upton's back
Member since Sep 2004
21054 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:24 pm to
But what do you think of her arse Cokes?
Posted by yellowfin
Coastal Bar
Member since May 2006
98945 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:24 pm to
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Her posting non parents need not apply just makes us without parents want to post just to piss her off.


You don't have parents?
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129146 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:25 pm to



Kids fin, kids
Posted by TigerFred
Feeding hamsters
Member since Aug 2003
27869 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:25 pm to
Kind if in the middle. I have two but both are now grown. Maybe I am disqualified.
Posted by tigerfoot
Alexandria
Member since Sep 2006
61432 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:25 pm to
I am serious, 1 year old parties should be such close friends that you aren't asking questions.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
156578 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:25 pm to
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No shite. But it does make you more than likely to have been in this same position once or twice before.

No shite.
quote:

Have you been in this position before?

Not with kids of my own, but with kids in my family, yes. But I guess just because I didn't sire those children myself means I can't be logical and think about what to do in your situation (that I've seen before)..is that what you're getting at?
Posted by Murray
Member since Aug 2008
14835 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:25 pm to
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BTW, having kids doesn't make you more logical than the rest of us.


Logic isn't the problem Cokes. It's the lack of experience.

That being said, it doesn't mean non-parents can't have an opinion or even a valid one from time to time. It's just that the opinion is usually an educated guess based on very little education.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83030 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:25 pm to
Posted by terriblegreen
Souf Badden Rewage
Member since Aug 2011
12292 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:26 pm to
It's ok to bring other kids. I have a little girl and fully expect parents to bring the siblings to her b-day parties. If the parents throwing the party don't expect this, then they are stupid. Even if I'm at a place where I have to pay by the number of kids, I factor that in. Definitely not a big deal.
Posted by Bubb
Member since Mar 2010
4292 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:26 pm to
Definitely ask them. They may be alright with it but will need to plan for extras like cake/pizza/cupcakes/party favors etc AND if it isn't at their house, they may be charged by head...If everyone brings 1 or 2 siblings, that could potentially double or triple the cost of their party.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
156578 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:27 pm to
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But what do you think of her arse Cokes?

I'm not sure...I'd need to actually see a picture of it instead of some close up top-down picture of her lower shirt.

Based on that pic alone, I assume I'd frick her, if that's what you're asking. So Cork...you're welcome.
Posted by Darth_Vader
A galaxy far, far away
Member since Dec 2011
73610 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:27 pm to
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I am serious, 1 year old parties should be such close friends that you aren't asking questions.



Good point. If someone is at my kid's birthday party, I'm going to know them well enough to know if they have other kids.
Posted by LouisianaLady
Member since Mar 2009
83030 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:27 pm to
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I am serious, 1 year old parties should be such close friends that you aren't asking questions.


This is actually my stance. No way in hell I'd pay a sitter for some rando 1 year old's birthday. Hell, Fin doesn't even get a sitter for weddings (I love you, Fin).

Why waste a perfectly good Saturday in a place with a bunch of babies you don't know? First birthday parties are only fun when everyone there knows/cares about each other.
Posted by VABuckeye
NOVA
Member since Dec 2007
38283 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:27 pm to
The 4 year old isn't invited. Find something else to do with her during the party.
Posted by CocomoLSU
Inside your dome.
Member since Feb 2004
156578 posts
Posted on 7/1/14 at 12:27 pm to
quote:

I have two but both are now grown.

Yeah they are..
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