re: Men act like they don't care about their wife's past, until you mention their wife's past

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It doesn't have to be in language that strong, but condemning others for not having "traditional values" while your own wife has been a hoe-bag is a shitty look.

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If the 3rd kid mentioned below is this guys then having kids with her husbands is hardly proof she is a hoe-bag. I am sure she played a part in divorces even if just ignoring obvious issues before getting married thinking she could fix them, but it’s just as likely the husbands were the problem including sleeping around, abusive, and so on as she was.

Considering how many females with kids from 3 or more fathers never even attempted to start a family with the fathers or get their asses off welfare I am not going to default to calling a female getting married 3 times and having kids with her husbands at the time of the marriages a hoe-bag with any other proof much less disrespect the power of Christ to forgive, heal, and change people’s lives.

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mentioned his wife is twice divorced with 3 kids from 3 different baby daddies.

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Sure he could have handled things better, but there is a few of y’all in this thread that seem to have some misogyny towards a woman overcoming sin, divorce, and trying to live a better life.

You could have just had your second paragraph focused on the husband and left out the part calling the wife a “hoe-bag”. You are actually not far from doing what you are complaining about.

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If he were trying to teach her through an empathetic response along the lines of "yes, she made some mistakes and she had to learn the hard way," that would be one thing. He wasn't doing that though, he was being a defensive little bitch because he knew she had a point and he didn't like it one bit.

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