re: Let's talk about porn

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Porn definitely has an adverse effect on people and it has an incremental nature where the porn that satisfies you now, won't satisfy you later and you will have to turn to harder stuff.

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No it doesn't. Not for the vast majority. What you're basically saying makes no sense, otherwise anyone started off on basic porn would be into bestiality and snuff films by now.

You simply have a skewed view cause you're seeing some of those few that lives are ruined by it.

This new generation is so weak minded it's scary. These little fuks can't overcome anything, can't control themselves, no accountability , and no repercussions from the whimps who raised them...

Germans get a bad rap in porn. All of the really weird stuff is from Japan and Brazil.

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I read almost every post in this thread and I was sure that almost all of it would be crude jokes, but I was pleasantly surprised by how many serious responses were on here and how many men have given up or are trying to give up porn. My hope in humanity is bolstered by this thread!

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you have the ying and yang in this thread:

1. the 17yo boys who are fresh out of high school and getting their 'social on' by joining & posting on TD before going to LSU and learning about their peen and being excited about the fact they can look at porn in their dorms and their mommys won't catch them.

2. the post-college (and older) crowd who have sowed their wild seeds already in college and who are realizing the debauchery associated with constant fapping to porn is having an adverse effect on their lives.

i'm as guilty as anyone of helping myself to the free videos & images on the web.

my 'adventures' started after my divorce. i wasn't especially religious about not watching porn, i just personally didn't want to indulge in it with my marriage..i had enough issues already with my ex to not add that to the mix.

for 7+ years as a single dad, yeah..what else you gonna do? hook up in bars? risk all manner of bad outcomes on casual sex? pregnancy? std/hiv? potential rape allegations for drunk sex? bunny cookers that show up at your house and work later? list goes on and on.

no, porn was a fine substitute but a little too addicting..definitely on par with nictone or gambling or drinking. SAME HIGH.

so yeah, when i remarried..not just out of respect for her but because i actually enjoy having fun adventurous sex with MS CAD, i opted out.

it was hard. (twss)

in the beginning, when i was dating her and didnt see her for a few days i was very tempted (habit) but did not because my SO was gorgeous and completely into me.

so why was i tempted? HABIT. it had become as routine (as seinfeld says) as the morning shower.

so, cad's worthless ramblings again, but there are some honest responses in this thread and like revelator, i'm actually encouraged by them.