re: Lesbians are labeled transphobic for not being attracted to Trannys

I recently worked with a lesbian couple. Not really a big deal, but then one was also in the process of transitioning. The other one was also bi. So in some twisted sense transitioning would apparently make them a “heterosexual”, but also a gay and bisexual couple as well. It was hard enough for me to wrap my brain around it but I can’t imagine the inner conflict and confusion that would create in their own lives. I just don’t see how you could find any sort of inner peace or happiness living that sort of lifestyle