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re: I need some honest relationship advice

Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:00 pm to
Posted by BugaPainTrain7
Oxford, MS
Member since Nov 2014
11567 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:00 pm to
Also I'm going up there this weekend for the Egg Bowl with a friend I have up there I'm staying the weekend do I try to get something together or not even tell her I'm up there???
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
76605 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:02 pm to
Dude, just ignore her. Don't contact her. She's just not that into you right now.

If in the future she reaches out to you hoping to get in a long term relationship again with you, be prepared to date/marry a girl that has had 8 inch black cock inside of her multiple times a month.

Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
59651 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:14 pm to
Buga, I went through this same shite with an ole miss chick. You're better off moving on.

If you go up there, you're going to be miserable thinking about her. If you surprise her, she's going to be pissed at you.

As a bonus, she's gonna be in a pissy mood after State whips that rebel arse. you really don't want to be around that do you?
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
16599 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:15 pm to
quote:

Dude, just ignore her. Don't contact her. She's just not that into you right now.

If in the future she reaches out to you hoping to get in a long term relationship again with you, be prepared to date/marry a girl that has had 8 inch black cock inside of her multiple times a month.



this
Posted by Sparkplug#1
Member since May 2013
7352 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:21 pm to
quote:

Give her an ultimatum to get her to stop stringing you along. Either commit and be together or GTFO so you can move on with your life


Why in the frick would you give someone an ultimatum that you wanted to be with? She's either down or I'm out.
Posted by NawlinsTiger9
Where the mongooses roam
Member since Jan 2009
35013 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:26 pm to
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BugaPainTrain7


Have you mentioned how old you are yet? Sorry if I missed it
Posted by BugaPainTrain7
Oxford, MS
Member since Nov 2014
11567 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:29 pm to
19
Posted by BugaPainTrain7
Oxford, MS
Member since Nov 2014
11567 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:30 pm to
She actually lives in Starkville...state fan that's an even bigger LSU fan
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
76605 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:41 pm to
She's 19, and you dated for 3 years and have been broken up for some period of time, and you're actually trying to tie yourself back down?


What the frick is wrong with you boy?


frick bitches, get drunk on the weekends and every once in a while during the week, go to class, get good grades, then get money and frick even hotter bitches.

Get a good job, find a relatively non-crazy good looking girl, get married, have babies.

Die happy.

The end.
Posted by BayouBandit24
Member since Aug 2010
16599 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:44 pm to
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19


All joking aside, I know that you do not want to hear this and will probably not listen... You are too young to be worried over something like this, and you need to just end the relationship. I know how it seems man, I too once thought at 19 that my then girlfriend was going to be the one. There's like a 95% chance that is not going to be the case. You should be out enjoying college right now without having to worry. She doesn't know what she wants, and is behaving selfishly. She wants all of the benefits of being single, but still wants to have you there if something goes wrong in her conquest. Never settle for being somebody's fall back plan. You hanging around is only going to lead to you getting your emotions stomped on, trust me there's not really many positives, if any, that can come out of your current situation.

The fact that y'all are long distance is actually a blessing, because it will be easier to finally the cut the chord. I know it will be extremely difficult for you, but I promise it is likely the best decision. If somehow down the line things work out, then that's awesome but don't plan on that happening. Best of luck.
Posted by MeatSlingingFool
Maurice, LA
Member since Sep 2014
304 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:50 pm to
quote:

asking the OT for relationship advice is like asking Miss America contestants about car maintenance


So, they'll try, but are clueless? Lol. LINK Remember miss south Carolina?
This post was edited on 11/26/14 at 12:25 am
Posted by BugaPainTrain7
Oxford, MS
Member since Nov 2014
11567 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:52 pm to
Yeah you're probably right...thank you for the advice...I'll keep it in mind...thanks everyone for their advice I really appreciate it
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
76605 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:54 pm to
Seriously, you're young.

Make mistakes and have fun, but go to class. Seriously, go to class.

You can make mistakes but don't let bad grades or dropping out happen to you. Keep your studies up, and have a hell of a time on the weekends.

And don't let other people control your happiness. You choose the people you surround yourself with. There is plenty of time to grow up later.

I would move on from her, tell her you are letting her find herself and if later down the road you get back together, then great. If not, then that's great too.
Posted by lsucoonass
shreveport and east texas
Member since Nov 2003
68516 posts
Posted on 11/25/14 at 11:56 pm to
Either ignore her or tell her that y'all are better off friends until she makes her mind up. Don't get caught up in your emotions.
Posted by BugaPainTrain7
Oxford, MS
Member since Nov 2014
11567 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:02 am to
Yeah I've been going to class but my dumbass has already let that shite affect my grades but I'm getting back on track
Posted by Cogsworth
Member since Aug 2014
1148 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:04 am to


Is that how this works, one OTer 'quits' to tag in a 'retired' one?

OP, you hate to hear this, but you are the back up/fall to guy. I promise that pussys seen other dick than yours. ESPECIALLY if its been LD. Like others have suggested, the best idea is to get out. BUT, may I suggest, you play the game too. Keep the nonsense talk up with her while dating other chicks. Its only fair, think of it as playing by her rules. Win, win.
Posted by KosmoCramer
Member since Dec 2007
76605 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:05 am to
Just make sure you balance school and partying.

And just hook up with good looking southern girls and have the time of your life. Life's too short to deal with girl drama at this stage.

GO TO CLASS!
















P. S. Go to class.
Posted by The Third Leg
Idiot Out Wandering Around
Member since May 2014
10059 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:05 am to
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Yeah I've been going to class but my dumbass has already let that shite affect my grades but I'm getting back on track

By the writing in your OP, I would say that this bitch has made you retarded.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129071 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:07 am to
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All joking aside, I know that you do not want to hear this and will probably not listen... You are too young to be worried over something like this, and you need to just end the relationship. I know how it seems man, I too once thought at 19 that my then girlfriend was going to be the one. There's like a 95% chance that is not going to be the case. You should be out enjoying college right now without having to worry. She doesn't know what she wants, and is behaving selfishly. She wants all of the benefits of being single, but still wants to have you there if something goes wrong in her conquest. Never settle for being somebody's fall back plan. You hanging around is only going to lead to you getting your emotions stomped on, trust me there's not really many positives, if any, that can come out of your current situation. The fact that y'all are long distance is actually a blessing, because it will be easier to finally the cut the chord. I know it will be extremely difficult for you, but I promise it is likely the best decision. If somehow down the line things work out, then that's awesome but don't plan on that happening. Best of luck.



THIS!


OP...I thought you were older than that tbh(like 21-22). Yall haven't even hit legal drinking age yet. Wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too young to be thinking long term. I too at 19 thought the guy I met at 17 was THE ONE. Spent 9 years of my life with him until finally realizing he wasn't. One of my biggest regrets was that I never got to have that true college experience of being young and single. I didn't get to date in college and just have fun. Instead I was tied down and putting way more energy into a relationship than I should have.
Posted by Cdawg
TigerFred's Living Room
Member since Sep 2003
59651 posts
Posted on 11/26/14 at 12:18 am to
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She actually lives in Starkville...state fan that's an even bigger LSU fan

pics?

jk

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