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How to fix a blind man up with a woman

Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:23 pm
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:23 pm
My best friend growing up and he was always legally blind then but is almost totally blind now. We are both in our late 40's and still hang out as much as posable . When my family goes to family functions or party's I always bring him with us. He lives with his mom and is on disability . He's just really lonely , I'm about the only person that he has to talk too.He was married for awhile in his 20's but she left him for another man. Is there any support groups or dating services for the blind around BR? I think he would be happy just talking on the phone with a female.
Posted by TH03
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:24 pm to
blindpeoplemeet.com
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:24 pm to
I think his best bet is to just have you be his wingman. Does he work at all?
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:25 pm to
Posted by MiloDanglers
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:26 pm to
Most legit thread in weeks.

Unfortunately I don't have any advice, but I'm looking forward to the OT coming through.
Posted by junkfunky
Member since Jan 2011
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:26 pm to
Is it possible for him to become more independant? It would likely translate to confidence.
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Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19242 posts
Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:26 pm to
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I think his best bet is to just have you be his wingman. Does he work at all?
I'm married so I don't know how much of a wingman I could be, no he doesn't work anymore but has a degree from Southeastern
Posted by Turkey_Creek_Tiger
Member since Dec 2012
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:27 pm to
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He's just really lonely


I bet. The man cant even watch porn. I hope he finds someone
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:28 pm to
Well, you better get ready, because he needs one.

It would be easier if he were more independent. A job would help.
Posted by BlackleafBaller
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:29 pm to
inb4blinddate
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19242 posts
Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:30 pm to
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Is it possible for him to become more independant? It would translate to confidence if only just a little.
he and his mom on fixed incomes ,they own a small house on a half acre....he is a really funny guy who jokes about his disability and one of the biggest sports fans you will fine....we talk everyday and it kills me because I can tell how lonely it is
Posted by Srbtiger06
Member since Apr 2006
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:31 pm to
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still hang out as much as posable


So like Gumby?
Posted by SabiDojo
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Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:32 pm to
You need to get him out there, and I'm not talking about just dating. He needs to get back in the game of life completely. There are jobs out there. There are support groups for the blind. If he gets out there, then the rest will fall into place.
Posted by jimbeam
University of LSU
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:32 pm to
I don't have any advice but I admire your friendship
Posted by Monday
Prairieville
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:32 pm to
Great odin's raven I didn't even think about the porn thing. Much respect for the blind man.
Posted by BowDownToLSU
Livingston louisiana
Member since Feb 2010
19242 posts
Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:34 pm to
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Well, you better get ready, because he needs one. It would be easier if he were more independent. A job would help.
he would work if he could , when we go places I have to walk in front of him and tell him left/right.....simple things like having to hand him salt /peeper when go out to eat.....
Posted by RBWilliams8
Member since Oct 2009
53417 posts
Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:34 pm to
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I'm married so I don't know how much of a wingman I could be, no he doesn't work anymore but has a degree from Southeastern


Well, just close on a chick.
Bring her back to his place.
Go to the room and turn off the lights.
Say you have to get condoms.
Send him in there in the dark (he's used to it anyway).
You did your bro duties and didn't cheat.
Posted by Flamefighter
Center Field
Member since Dec 2007
7629 posts
Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:36 pm to
Does your wife have any single women in the workplace that y'all could set him up with. Y'all go out together maybe to a crawfish boil or LSU baseball game.
Posted by detmut
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Member since Sep 2011
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:37 pm to
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Posted by kywildcatfanone
Wildcat Country!
Member since Oct 2012
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Posted on 3/7/14 at 7:38 pm to
I have no real advice, but I did have a blind friend growing up and he was a super nice guy. I bet some churches or community organizations have groups that gather with similar issues. Might check into that. Best of luck, and kudos to you for being his friend.
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