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Ethical Question About Surrogacy
Posted on 10/20/14 at 5:56 pm
Posted on 10/20/14 at 5:56 pm
would it be selfish for a man and woman to have a hold through the process of surrogacy with no medical reason?
example: a women choses surrogacy to avoid the physical concequences of child birth and retain her body. does that make her selfish? does that make the man selfish or does he even have a say in this?
it kind of seems like it is a win-win for everybody, imo
example: a women choses surrogacy to avoid the physical concequences of child birth and retain her body. does that make her selfish? does that make the man selfish or does he even have a say in this?
it kind of seems like it is a win-win for everybody, imo
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Posted on 10/20/14 at 5:58 pm to CaptainPanic
Selfish as shite, sounds like something a stuck up bitch would do. Likely will be a bad mother as well
Posted on 10/20/14 at 5:59 pm to CaptainPanic
Who cares? 
It doesn't affect me.
It doesn't affect me.
Posted on 10/20/14 at 5:59 pm to CaptainPanic
quote:
a women choses surrogacy to avoid the physical concequences of child birth and retain her body. does that make her selfish?
She can prove she's not selfish.
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does that make the man selfish or does he even have a say in this?
Man get's to pick the surrogate and impregnate her naturally.
Everybody wins.
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:00 pm to CaptainPanic
I want my wife to stay tight AF. Would def do it
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:00 pm to Epic Cajun
quote:your wife will look younger for longer. how does that not affect you?
It doesn't affect me
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:04 pm to CaptainPanic
Eventually it'll come back around to somehow being the man's fault if she regrets her decision, so who gives a frick?
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:05 pm to CaptainPanic
He would also not have to deal with a hormonal, emotional pregnant wife for 9 months either.
I'd say that affects him
I'd say that affects him
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:10 pm to lsunurse
exactly. what's your opinion on this nurse? you are a good person to ask about this. would it be healthier for a woman to choose surrogacy over natural child birth?
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:23 pm to CaptainPanic
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would it be healthier for a woman to choose surrogacy over natural child birth?
I guess. But many women want to be pregnant. They want to have that bond with their unborn child. They want to experience pregnancy and childbirth.
We don't think people who adopt children instead of having their own(when they medically could) are selfish do we?
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:26 pm to lsunurse
quote:No because they are saving the life of an orphan.
We don't think people who adopt children instead of having their own(when they medically could) are selfish do we?
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:29 pm to CaptainPanic
Surrogacy is expensive. I would think that takes place more when the dad is adamant about it being HIS child and is not open towards adoption(assuming using a traditional surrogate where the surrogate mother is technically the bio mom).
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:29 pm to LSU-MNCBABY
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Selfish as shite, sounds like something a stuck up bitch would do. Likely will be a bad mother as well
"I just want to be a mother without any of the sacrifices."
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:33 pm to LSUsuperfresh
quote:childbirth isn't the only sacrifice of a mother. it seems like if the family could afford it, everyone would be better off
"I just want to be a mother without any of the sacrifices."
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:35 pm to CaptainPanic
What if the mom's appearance is part of her career? Ex: Personal trainer, fitness model, whatever. I realize many of those I listed likely take breaks to have a child but if they have the money and the husband is on board....who cares?
Posted on 10/20/14 at 6:41 pm to lsunurse
quote:there would no doubt be some people who would think negatively about that decision. a celebrity for example. there would almost certainly be bad press
who cares?
Posted on 10/20/14 at 8:17 pm to lsunurse
It's like $50-100,000 expensive, right? And what if the bio mom wants to keep the baby? I guess you better hope the legal contact holds.
Yeah, I think it's selfish for physical reasons. But if that's what floats your boat, it's none of my/our business.
Yeah, I think it's selfish for physical reasons. But if that's what floats your boat, it's none of my/our business.
Posted on 10/20/14 at 8:22 pm to CaptainPanic
Since you're asking I frown upon it...
Posted on 10/20/14 at 8:33 pm to lsunurse
I was referring to other people choosing to do that, not my own wife
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