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re: Divorce Prep
Posted on 9/11/25 at 10:39 pm to Cage Fighter Trainee
Posted on 9/11/25 at 10:39 pm to Cage Fighter Trainee
First...Life is too short to live in a toxic relationship. You're putting all that energy into a relationship that's giving you zero in return. Imagine a fresh start where you do good things for another person and they actually appreciate you.
Second..Money is the next hurdle. The end of a marriage can present financial challenges, but it does not necessarily lead to serious financial complications. Disputes may intensify when each party attempts to gain a financial advantage over the other. Over time, both individuals may face negative outcomes. It is generally beneficial for both parties to work toward an equitable settlement. Pursuing more than an equal share after divorce often involves additional complexity and cost.
Have you considered finding a mediator? Attorneys can be damn expensive, and they'll drain your cash in extensive and protracted disputes. Maybe she'd be open to that.
Why? A professional mediator can help parties settle a divorce effectively and reduce costs. Mediation enables both individuals to participate in the process and make decisions on key issues, rather than leaving all decisions solely to legal representatives. If not, you'll need to find your own.
Third..how to deal with her now? Remember, it's about the kids, how they view you, how they see the two of you interact. My parents divorced years ago and I still remember it.
When the other person is pulling away from you or wanting a divorce... they are almost automatically on the opposite side of any fence that they perceive you as being on. Therefore, apply the principles of jujitsu. Go with them... Stop pressuring, stop criticizing... Agree with anything your mate says or does. Maybe that'd take the pressure off.
Fourth..Take care of yourself, physically and mentally. Work out. Go out with your friends. Your emotions are freyed and you need some "Me Time".
FWIW, I did a while back run across this eBook on the subject of Stopping Divorce. It's in a .pdf format.
Hang in there. There can be light at the end of the tunnel.
Second..Money is the next hurdle. The end of a marriage can present financial challenges, but it does not necessarily lead to serious financial complications. Disputes may intensify when each party attempts to gain a financial advantage over the other. Over time, both individuals may face negative outcomes. It is generally beneficial for both parties to work toward an equitable settlement. Pursuing more than an equal share after divorce often involves additional complexity and cost.
Have you considered finding a mediator? Attorneys can be damn expensive, and they'll drain your cash in extensive and protracted disputes. Maybe she'd be open to that.
Why? A professional mediator can help parties settle a divorce effectively and reduce costs. Mediation enables both individuals to participate in the process and make decisions on key issues, rather than leaving all decisions solely to legal representatives. If not, you'll need to find your own.
Third..how to deal with her now? Remember, it's about the kids, how they view you, how they see the two of you interact. My parents divorced years ago and I still remember it.
When the other person is pulling away from you or wanting a divorce... they are almost automatically on the opposite side of any fence that they perceive you as being on. Therefore, apply the principles of jujitsu. Go with them... Stop pressuring, stop criticizing... Agree with anything your mate says or does. Maybe that'd take the pressure off.
Fourth..Take care of yourself, physically and mentally. Work out. Go out with your friends. Your emotions are freyed and you need some "Me Time".
FWIW, I did a while back run across this eBook on the subject of Stopping Divorce. It's in a .pdf format.
Hang in there. There can be light at the end of the tunnel.
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Posted on 9/11/25 at 11:20 pm to Cage Fighter Trainee
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she didn't think it was worthwhile. I just heard from a friend of a friend that my wife is meeting with a divorce attorney. What's a good plan of action or any prep I can take?
She already has a lawyer and probably another man and you are about to get served and get slapped with WIFE support. My advice lawyer up and get half and half custody. frick her she has moved on. It is a business now. She doesn’t love you any more you failed her and it is all your fault this is what she is thinking. You know how I know because I was married for 12 years and had three kids and got fricked. Be the best dad to your kids they will get through this and you will too. They will never forget what you did and how you were still a great dad. Take care of yourself workout or just do things you were not able to do over the last few years. It won’t hurt to score a little strange if you can too.
Good luck sir
Posted on 9/12/25 at 6:39 am to Cage Fighter Trainee
Continue to meet with a counselor. If it works out or falls apart, you’re a different man. Grow in who you need to be. Love her well everyday, no matter what. Confess often and begin apologizing for stuff in the past that you blamed her for. Find 2-3 brothers who are pro marriage and that don’t pile on reasons to leave.
Posted on 9/12/25 at 11:04 am to Cage Fighter Trainee
Why are you videoing empty High Noon cans in the garbage can?
Posted on 9/12/25 at 10:22 pm to JohnnyKilroy
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I’d personally start moving money. Definitely do not do this.
100% do this. You people act like you can’t hide anything from the big bad judge and attorneys. It’s easy. You have every right to move money whenever the hell you want.
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