re: Complicated situation. Advice appreciated. Will try to be brief.

guess she thought you could be her new pimp? ill speculate that since you wont fill us in on the illegal activity of a person we know nothing about.

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And you haven't fully considered the possibility that this person from a very sketchy background, "very cute" as you suggest, hasn't gotten a lot of mileage by paying attention to older men over the past few years?

There is a whole underbelly who use gals like this as bait to identify marks, case targets and put gentlemen in either very compromising situations or just distract/otherwise get them out of the way for their criminal accomplices. Surely, a sophisticated man of the world can see this is at least a possibility here right?

Hey - we're having a little fun with you with all this - I still haven't completely ruled out the fact that you're trolling. But, hey, for the entertainment value, my participation here was worth it.

In any event - you didn't do anything too stupid - you came here asking for advice, you've called law enforcement - for all of our ribbing, you've behaved in a fairly sensible way under the circumstances.

Good luck with it.

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I basically grew up on this property. We had a drug addict/alcoholic cousin who terrorized the entire family for a good 20 years.

Maybe you can understand why I have zero tolerance for drug addicts?

Admittedly I may be naive about the ways of druggies but that's mostly because I avoid them like the plague. This situation landed at my front doorstep (literally). I'm just dealing with the problem. Got some really good feedback on here and some good laughs.

I'm getting a "Fatal Attraction" feeling from this.

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Congrats you're about to be in a threesome....and since he's just getting out of jail your buttholes just as appealing to him as her vag.

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i assume you're just posting this in jest


seriously, i'd love to hear how a few of the people who posted in the thread would deal with situation.

guessing it would be tragically humorous.

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bro, I think you are seriously underestimating me

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for your sake, I hope so

Yes it was in jest. I would have probably confronted her by now (in a nice way) to understand why she keeps going out there and what she wants. I'd also ask if there was something I could do for her within reason to help her.

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Maybe it will end up lame.


Maybe?

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it's real life stuff - probably won't end like a movie

update

pretty sure this thread is almost finished unless something newsworthy happens. Thought I'd throw in a rough timeline of events since some of the posts are so far off - no biggie - you didn't want to read the thread.

Been piecing events of the last 5 years together to try and make sense of this.


2009/2010 - met this woman at work; casual friendship develops over next 2 years


Fastforward to 2012 - she's been diagnosed with a serious illness - had 2 surgeries - been fighting for 1 year to get back to work in a different position she can handle - no luck. Her work disability has run out. She's having problems paying rent, buying kids stuff, etc. This is pretty much fact from conversations.

Speculation: I'm thinking that around 2012 she possibly became addicted to pain pills. She hooked up with loser boyfriend who may have been supplying her with pain meds. May have got her hooked on other drugs too.

Winter 2013 - Her life is in a full blown shitnami by this point - possibly addicted to pain pills, evicted from one residence. Dad dies of cancer and daugher is killed in 4 wheeler accident within 4 months. Boyfriend is arrested.

Currently: Just guessing at this point she's in full blown depression/addiction state and possibly spiraling out of control.

This is about the only scenario that makes sense to me - may be wrong, but it fits.

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You sure about that?

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i am very sure about that Only modifier would be i'm a smart heterosexual who has control of his urges

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Was kidding with you.

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you had me going bro


Just posted last update and timeline 'cuz I was told that a couple of professional counselers may be following this thread. Thought a timeline would be helpful. Got some great feedback from some people here. Really enjoyed it.