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re: Another heartbreak, I'm just done with dating...

Posted on 4/3/17 at 3:48 pm to
Posted by SuicideSlushPuppie
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 3:48 pm to
Posted by meeple
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 3:48 pm to
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Life's tough. It's tougher when you're a nerd.

Are we in high school?
Posted by Fewer Kilometers
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:02 pm to
What really sucks is that someone on this board catfished this poor guy and you're not owning up to it.
Posted by Scoop
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:14 pm to
I'm not going to read this thread so apologies if this post goes over old ground.

You should absolutely give up. Until you give up, nothing is going to happen for you.

Women can smell desperation like a bloodhound and it repulses them. You are probably putting off that vibe heavily.

Chill out, stop pushing and grinding so hard and that stink will fade and something will happen.

Posted by Ted2010
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:16 pm to
Why is this GN troll thread still going?
Posted by NoHoTiger
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:18 pm to
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Never ask a woman if she wants to go out with you, tell her she is going out with you

Yeah, no.
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Wherever you take a woman out - never pay for her.

If you do this, you better let her know up front. It's not a deal-breaker for me, but if you ask me out, I expect you to pay. At least the first date. Just like if I ask a guy out, I expect to pay.
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Again, directing a woman and leading is better than asking. Take charge and tell her what to do, not ask her to do something.

bullshite. I'm not a child and I don't need to be directed. A little common courtesy goes a long way.
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:21 pm to
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I'm not a child


You replied to one though.
Posted by I Love Bama
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:22 pm to
Your problem is you are looking for it. I stopped chasing women years ago and have never gotten more women than I do now.

Focus 100% on yourself. Get in shape, read, travel and just become interesting.

Women want what they can't have. Put YOURSELF on a pedestal and kick the pussy off.
Posted by Rebelgator
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:22 pm to
Has the Hitlernugget told OP to become a Nazi yet?
Posted by NoHoTiger
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:23 pm to
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But yet, we had managers banging the employees anyway

So, you work at places where those in supervisory positions and charged with enforcing policies ignore the company policies AND open up the company up to sexual harassment law suits? Not really sure those are the folks you should be aspiring to.
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:24 pm to
I didn't read thru 29 pages of 18-40 year old guys at home on Friday and Saturday nights talking about what big alpha players they are and dishing out advice on how to pick up women.
Posted by Rebelgator
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:25 pm to
Well, I'm not going to read back to find out.
Posted by goldennugget
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:26 pm to
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If you do this, you better let her know up front. It's not a deal-breaker for me, but if you ask me out, I expect you to pay. At least the first date. Just like if I ask a guy out, I expect to pay.



So what if Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling or Ryan Reynolds asked you out to dinner and didn't pay.

My point is if a woman is into you enough she won't give a crap if you don't pay for her. I never pay and only once has the woman I was with got mad, and so I didn't go out with her again(it was my call). The rest are OK with it.

The only way she would care is if she is looking to use you as an ATM.

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Yeah, no.



So tell me this. Which sounds more like a man who is confident and has his shite together, as well as a man who is outcome independent and not putting the pussy on the pedestal:

"I'm going rock climbing tomorrow at 5. Join me"

or

"Hey, well, I was wondering, if, um, you would maybe, like to go rock climbing sometime.... when are you free"
Posted by goldennugget
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:27 pm to
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Your problem is you are looking for it. I stopped chasing women years ago and have never gotten more women than I do now.

Focus 100% on yourself. Get in shape, read, travel and just become interesting.

Women want what they can't have. Put YOURSELF on a pedestal and kick the pussy off.


Pretty much boils down to the advice I give, and yet I get called a woman hating misogynist.

Just letting you know this kind of thinking is considered evil and bad around here.
Posted by Rebelgator
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:28 pm to
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goldennugget



Have you ever had consensual contact with a female that didn't involve paying her pimp?
Posted by NoHoTiger
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:28 pm to
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You replied to one though.

True, but he's pretty much a lost cause that probably consults a pamphlet with a decision matrix in it any time he's talking to a woman:
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red line, alpha response; green line, beta response.


This was more for the OP and anyone else who considers taking that guy's advice.
Posted by Titus Pullo
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:30 pm to
Smart man.

But call any of them on it and they were just checking in between slaying 10s.

Because when I'm out and about with friends, checking the OT is a high priority.
Posted by Pitch To Johnny
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:33 pm to
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If you do this, you better let her know up front. It's not a deal-breaker for me, but if you ask me out, I expect you to pay. At least the first date. Just like if I ask a guy out, I expect to pay.


Yep. And if a girl never offers to pay when we go out, I do side with GN, assume she just wants free outings, and move on. To be clear, I end up paying anyway, but just the offer shows it was appreciated.

Thankfully, the last couple girls I have dated refused to let me pay every so often, or took paid before the check was brought out.

I'm as big of a tight arse as they come, but I'm not asking a girl out on a first date unless I'm comfortable with paying for the whole thing.
Posted by NoHoTiger
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Member since Nov 2006
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:34 pm to
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So what if Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling or Ryan Reynolds asked you out to dinner and didn't pay.

My point is if a woman is into you enough she won't give a crap if you don't pay for her. I never pay and only once has the woman I was with got mad, and so I didn't go out with her again(it was my call). The rest are OK with it.

The only way she would care is if she is looking to use you as an ATM.

No, I'm saying have a little common courtesy and let me know up front if I need to pick up my own tab.
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"I'm going rock climbing tomorrow at 5. Join me"

or

"Hey, well, I was wondering, if, um, you would maybe, like to go rock climbing sometime.... when are you free"

Neither is what you said, or rather, implied, you woul do. You implied you should say, "You're rock climbing with me tomorrow at 5."

You probably think this all sounds like you have everything under control, but this doesn't come off that way to women. It actually comes off as someone who is a total douchebag who has no regard for anyone else.

And it's fine if that's how you want to be, but don't pretend that you are, or anyone sees you as, anything but a try-hard douche.
Posted by vengeanceofrain
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Member since Jun 2013
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Posted on 4/3/17 at 4:37 pm to
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It's only creepy if your SMV is too low. That's why an ugly dude is called a creep when he gives flowers to a woman, but a good looking man is called sweet when he does the same exact thing.


when i was 250 ish pounds I wanted some attention and went to a strip club, paid for a private dance and the stripper got offended that i had the nerve to expect her to dance with me. she called me a creep


when i was about 170-175 i took a girl out to eat, had taken an X pill earlier so i was looking to frick my dinner plate at that point, mouthed to the waitress that i wanted to screw her, she nodded to the womens rest room, went in there, hit it doggy in the bathroom stall, didn't even get her name, came right back out finished dinner and went home, kthen had sex with the girl i had just taken out.


if you are attractive there is nothing that a man can do that is creepy

if you aren't attractive, there is nothing that you can do to make you not creepy


that's the rub. you can be bold as you want to be wiht a woman becuase she's already determined rather she'd frick you or not before you open your mouth. If you aren't going to frick, at least being bold saves me time and allows me to find women who do find me attractive.


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No, I'm saying have a little common courtesy and let me know up front if I need to pick up my own tab.


now this is something i agree with. I got 99 problems worrying about my dates tab is not one of them i'm not poor. if i have to worry about rather or not the girl i'm with is drinking too many hurricanes or not, my arse needs to be at work and not on a date

i don't squabble over money but if i get the sense i'm being used i just find someone who isn't using me.
This post was edited on 4/3/17 at 4:39 pm
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