re: Looking back at times where you missed out on an obvious opportunity for sex

My last year in college I got to know this chick pretty well. She made no secret of her love for sex - would talk about playing with girls, ran a webcam on Yahoo messenger to show off, even filmed an X-rated solo play DVD with a company out of Atlanta.

We went out a couple of times and the second time we end up back at my apartment. She's in a low cut top and flirty, but some of the comments make me think she's just enjoying messing with me, so I don't try anything.

A year or two later I happen to be passing through the town where she lives. We go to dinner and again very flirty throughout. Take her home (she has roommates) and say goodbye the door. She gives me a sweet little peck on the cheek and I head back to the car.

I kick myself to this day for not turning around and attempting one hell of a kiss to see where it would have led.

Then there are the questions of "what could I have gotten" from chicks I was dating. I dated this one chick from Mobile as a long distance type thing. Was down there for Mardi Gras and she was talking about how this female friend she had would come over and they'd drink champagne and make out.

Stupid me should have been like "Hey, let's buy a couple of bottles and invite her over." But no, like a wuss I didn't, cause in my head I'm thinking if I do that and she isn't into it, we're probably done. But we were done not too long after that anyway.