re: My MIL opened up a credit card in my wife’s name

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TBH I’m confused. I don’t get how you spend this amount of money.

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..... how do you not know? You don’t have any of the statements? How do you even know what the balance is?

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She has a great job as a nurse anesthetist.

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She’s a sociopath who has no respect for you or your wife and enabling her is a horrific decision. If she has a great job why can she not pay it back?

This story is making less and less sense. You need to ask your wife if something like this has happened before to her or her siblings and then you need to file at minimum a civil suit but you should probably call the cops.

A widowed working nurse anesthetist spends 20,000 on a fraudulent credit card in her daughters name? That woman is insane and capable of making your inexplicably naive head explode. Good luck.

This woman is going to wreck your life and most likely the lives of your children as well if you let this slide and maintain a relationship like it’s no big deal.

I have one last very honest set of question you should answer: does she scratch herself a lot? Always seem tired but always has an excuse? Or random hyper mood swings? Does she seem erratic and you write it off as a personality?