re: How did you know your last relationship was over?

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she had a lot of narcissistic tendencies.

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I mean, I knew before this because we had already split up before. She begged me to give her another chance and that she’d work on things. She was trying to convince me to take her back even though I was seeing the same red flags/recurring issues that caused me to end it the first time. I was driving us back from a date and we were discussing it all. She thought it was a good idea to tell me she had other guys giving her attention and it made things easier for me. Once I heard that, told her we’re not getting back together. Her first instinct was to grab a prescription bottle out of her purse and swallow as many pills as possible before I realized what was going on and wrestled it away from her. Then she took her seatbelt off and tried to throw herself out of the moving car. Managed to yank her back in and convince her things would be ok before dropping her off at her parents’ so they could deal with her.

She called weeks later to “apologize” aka beg me again while she was dating someone else. I didn’t answer the phone (strange voicemail) and have avoided her at all costs ever since