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re: Dreading Tomorrow - Saying goodbye to my dog

Posted on 1/15/21 at 11:13 pm to
Posted by Cubssfan
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Sep 2003
1110 posts
Posted on 1/15/21 at 11:13 pm to
WT, I’m glad you had 13 years with your Dane. I want to tell you that I “got to” put my 13 year old yellow lab-golden retriever mix (Jack) down years ago on a Friday morning. I cried all weekend.

It’s important for me to say “got to” because it was my gift to him for all the love he gave to me for 13 years. He had cancer, and the vet told me, “You will know when it is time.” He let me know that morning when he woke me up hyperventilating like he had been chasing a ball for 30 minutes.

After the vet put him down he told me he was sorry. I told him, “I hope we get to do this again in 13 or 14 more years.” Well, my current yellow-golden mix (Jackie) is now 12 and she is slowing down. I just hope and pray I will get to do the same for her as I did for Jack.

It truly is a gift that we can give them when the time comes. Accepting that makes it easier, but I’m sure I’ll still cry all weekend when it’s Jackie’s time.

You are doing the right thing..... even if it hurts.
This post was edited on 1/15/21 at 11:15 pm
Posted by WhiskeyThrottle
Weatherford Tx
Member since Nov 2017
5419 posts
Posted on 1/16/21 at 2:09 pm to
I read a lot of stuff about knowing when it’s the right time and ran across an article that gave a great perspective. In nature there isn’t any death with dignity or fearless death. Euthanasia is truly a gift to your pet to go peacefully. In nature they either die of a medical condition, get mauled by another animal or lay down in a field for who knows how long until your body gives out. Hell, humans don’t even have the luxury of euthanasia. You die of whatever natural condition you get or whatever unnatural occurrence happens.

Today I feel a little empty without my friend but also relieved she isn’t struggling anymore.

My other pup is struggling a bit today. I think the permanence of the situation is starting to set in. But she’s laying right next to me and just sleeping and hanging out. She got a bath for the first time in a long time and we played fetch for a bit. I think she will be alright long term. Especially when we get her a new companion to keep her busy.

I really appreciate all of the comments in this thread. The outdoor board is definitely a good source to talk through with this sort of thing so sincerely to all you strangers, thank you.
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