re: To those who have lost someone to suicide

In the years after college I had a group that would meet up at our regular bar for football.

A few years ago I sent out a text and headed over. The bartender was friends with one of the guy’s girlfriend. So the bartender was actually the one who told us one of our friends shot himself the night before.

We knew he was getting some shite from his ex-wife, but didn’t know about some back owed child support from a long time ago. Turns out he got the short end of a court order and went home and checked out.

Very sudden; no real signs.