re: The Bitterness of Missing Out on Love

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Nobody is perfect man. Maybe you are the piece to turn that women into a loving wife. Marriage isn’t some fairytale. Life has trials and tribulations and to make a marriage work long term both have to realize that neither partner is perfect and you will have to live with their shortcomings.

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But it goes back to the fact that I'm 36 now. Even if I do go out and aggressively date I feel like I'm going to have to make a choice:

A) Date women closer to my age (30 and up) who will most likely be divorced/separated/out of a bad relationship and possibly have kids.

or

B) Date a woman significantly younger than me (early, mid, maybe late 20s) which typically causes its own issues. Never mind women in that age range will typically be more superficial and we might not have as much in common. Never mind we would've grown up in very different times.

Neither option is great and I have no clue which way to go in that regard.