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re: I need a good rec of a divorce attorney who can handle cases in Livingston Parish
Posted on 12/30/19 at 10:50 pm to LSU Wayne
Posted on 12/30/19 at 10:50 pm to LSU Wayne
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LSU Wayne
if you have children together, it is best that you both stay in and fight to make the marriage work. It will suck at times, but relationships can be repaired. You can’t change her and she can’t change you, but you both can change yourselves.
If one of you is seeing someone else, stop. You can’t fix a marriage with one foot out the door. And if that is the case, whatever is new and shiny will soon lose its luster. Again, you have to fix yourself before you continue on with your spouse or new partner, should that be the case. Otherwise, you’ll find yourself in this predicament again.
The only exception to this is physical abuse or if you are put into immediate danger. If that is the case, get out and find a safe place to live.
Lastly, most marriage counselors suck, because of the way it is set up. One session with you. The other with her. And then come together. It’s you versus her instead of you and her. Find one that you both can agree on and learn to listen more than you talk.
This post was edited on 12/30/19 at 10:53 pm
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Posted on 12/30/19 at 10:52 pm to Will Cover
Been there done that and sleep with a foot outta the bed. Hmmm. Jumped two years ago before we got hitched. Luckily I got the starter marriage outta the way with the kids. 
Posted on 12/30/19 at 11:15 pm to Will Cover
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relationships can be repaired
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If one of you is seeing someone else, stop.
You can’t fix a marriage with one foot out the door. And if that is the case, whatever is new and shiny will soon lose its luster
You sound like you know what your talking about. What do you think if you’re not in love with each other anymore? Or you found true love elsewhere? Or you find out your gay?
Posted on 12/30/19 at 11:53 pm to Will Cover
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if you have children together, it is best that you both stay in and fight to make the marriage work. It will suck at times, but relationships can be repaired. You can’t change her and she can’t change you, but you both can change yourselves.
If one of you is seeing someone else, stop. You can’t fix a marriage with one foot out the door. And if that is the case, whatever is new and shiny will soon lose its luster. Again, you have to fix yourself before you continue on with your spouse or new partner, should that be the case. Otherwise, you’ll find yourself in this predicament again.
Worse advice than your shitty "how to be a cheap a-hole at a car dealership thread" everybody cites.
Posted on 12/31/19 at 12:58 am to Will Cover
quote:
if you have children together, it is best that you both stay in and fight to make the marriage work. It will suck at times, but relationships can be repaired. You can’t change her and she can’t change you, but you both can change yourselves.
If one of you is seeing someone else, stop. You can’t fix a marriage with one foot out the door. And if that is the case, whatever is new and shiny will soon lose its luster. Again, you have to fix yourself before you continue on with your spouse or new partner, should that be the case. Otherwise, you’ll find yourself in this predicament again.
The only exception to this is physical abuse or if you are put into immediate danger. If that is the case, get out and find a safe place to live.
Lastly, most marriage counselors suck, because of the way it is set up. One session with you. The other with her. And then come together. It’s you versus her instead of you and her. Find one that you both can agree on and learn to listen more than you talk.
I've been married 25 years. This is sound advice.
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