re: Have you cheated on your spouse?

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I suspect most of the people claiming they would never cheat have never been put in that situation. Truth of the matter is that if an attractive member of the opposite sex shows interest most men/women at least entertain the idea. Many of you may want to look in the mirror before being so judgmental and calling others pieces of shite. In other words, don't act so holier than thou if nobody other than spouse finds you attractive.

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I was coming here to post this I can't speak for everyone in here, but it's not like everyone in here has women beating down their doors to have sex

Turning down an OT 8 that is hitting on you at the bar is impressive. Not cheating just because you either never go to parties/bars or you're old, balding with a beer belly is not impressive. It's like being proud of never getting a speeding ticket, but in reality it's because you don't have a car. Let's not confuse willpower/morality with lack of opportunity. It's easy to say I'm going to sit in the corner over here and just watch the band...it's a totally different story if a pretty girl comes out of nowhere and sits next to you and starts whispering sweet nothings in your ear.

90% of not cheating is just not putting yourself in that situation.