re: Ronaldo admits rape accuser said no multiple times but he apologized after raping her

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So, she thought frick it I am just gonna sit here and take it?

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i'm going to guess you are one of the lucky ones and haven't been sexually assaulted/molested....

well, as someone who has been, let me speak from experience... yeah, she probably did.... what HER reasons were for that, i can't speak for, but i know that when it happened to me, i was basically just sorta paralyzed... i wanted to move, but i just couldn't... i knew what was going on, but it was so surreal, i just froze...

and as far as the "after", yeah, i didn't tell even my parents until 19 years later... i pushed that so far into the dark, deep recess of my brain, to try to forget about it, that i just never brought it up, fearing not being believed, feeling shamed, etc.... the ONLY reason i can bring it up now is because of the years of therapy that i've gone through, that have helped me deal with the after effects of what i went through....