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re: Parent Problems looking for advice
Posted on 3/8/18 at 4:07 pm to Loungefly85
Posted on 3/8/18 at 4:07 pm to Loungefly85
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Is he an alcoholic? Or like this alway?
If it’s because of drinking then at least give him an ultimatum. But if he’s always like that then cut the fricker loose.
He started drinking lately but he has always been this way...a few months ago he started going to church and seemed better till he didnt get his way and shite went to the fan.
I have explained numerous times that i have my own family that comes first, that i cant schedule my life around what he wants, i have explained straight up the things he has said and done and he still acts like it wasnt wrong and says we are wrong for what we are doing by keeping him away...He swears my wife is pursuading me to do it but she isnt...However she did open my eyes more to see how corrupt he is and what he was doing to me...He has stressed me to the point of coming home and just being a jerk to my wife from me dealing with him and my wife does not deserve it at all and he thinks there is no way he causes commotion...
Literally told me 20 minutes ago im going to hell...I just told him it wouldnt be no different than the past 26 years of my life
This post was edited on 3/22/18 at 1:57 pm
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Posted on 3/8/18 at 5:02 pm to SwampBandit
Swamp,
Two things:
Go get a shingles vaccination. My husband was so verbally abused by his mother that he came down with shingles. Fortunately I knew what it was and we got the antivirals fast enough. He is the youngest son and for a long time thought his older brothers were exaggerating. Then he came to her attention.
Keep a written record somewhere other than your home. Things that happened and the approx. date.
Other posters have also given advice you must follow.
Two things:
Go get a shingles vaccination. My husband was so verbally abused by his mother that he came down with shingles. Fortunately I knew what it was and we got the antivirals fast enough. He is the youngest son and for a long time thought his older brothers were exaggerating. Then he came to her attention.
Keep a written record somewhere other than your home. Things that happened and the approx. date.
Other posters have also given advice you must follow.
Posted on 3/9/18 at 8:22 am to SwampBandit
quote:
Literally told me 20 minutes ago im going to hell...I just told him it wouldnt be no different than the past 26 years of my life
I'm a Christian man and I really do believe in second chances and forgiveness. But, HE needs to prove that he can control himself to YOU before he can ever continue to interact with YOUR family. As someone said earlier "you hold all of the cards". And, you do. Make the most of YOUR one chance to raise your daughter correctly and cut out any bad influence you can. You will only get one shot in raising your daughter and if your father can't conform and behave himself then cut him loose and move on. No guilt on your part. If your daughter wants to see him when she's grown, then that's her choice. But, you are the parent right now.
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