re: Mother-in-law in delivery room

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You are basically saying your wishes are to be followed and hers are irrelevant because you feel differently.

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I'm not though. One option involves the people that need to be there. The other option involves an extra person that one of the necessary people doesn't want there. In that situation, I choose only having the two necessary people involved, and that wold be my decision if it want to my benefit.

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t. If the husband and he wife disagree about the presence of the mil, and both feel strongly, the mil will likely be in the room because it is what the mom to be wants.

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And that is a poor decision for a healthy marriage. You've said it yourself