re: Doubt this has happened to a TDer before.

Damn that's a really sad set of circumstances. I'm not trying to sound like a dick, but your wife was trying to change the terms of the original deal. I know it's been a long time and he might have wanted to know his biological mom but that's an assumption. In any event I would let sleeping dogs lie in spite of the fact that human emotions run deep on this particular circumstance.

Maybe you could post some pics of your wife and the OT could provide her with some extra support.


Jk