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re: People who choose to not have kids
Posted on 12/20/17 at 12:44 pm to cj35
Posted on 12/20/17 at 12:44 pm to cj35
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You realize that even if you do not want to have any of your own, you and your girlfriend can adopt. There are plenty of kids needing a good home.
I'm sorry. Would you prefer me to be knocked up out of wedlock and letting you pay for my kids?
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Real talk: I wouldn't mind having kids at some point but I also want my kids to grow up in a financially stable, two parent home.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 12:52 pm to BluegrassBelle
quote:Do you live in a sate that allows for alternative lifestyle marriages? I pay for everyone else's, so why not yours.
I'm sorry. Would you prefer me to be knocked up out of wedlock and letting you pay for my kids?
quote:cool. I get that.
Real talk: I wouldn't mind having kids at some point but I also want my kids to grow up in a financially stable, two parent home.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 1:06 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Real talk: I wouldn't mind having kids at some point but I also want my kids to grow up in a financially stable, two parent home.
Again... This..
There are a lot of people who are so hung up on having kids, that they don't care what kind of situation they are bringing them up in. Many, if not most kids become a product of their environment. And their parents will only teach them what they know.
I remember in HS, there were smart kids who, after graduating, got married and had kids. They didn't go to college.. They live in the same conditions as they grew up in. It doesn't matter how good of grades they made, no matter what, they grew up a certain way and that's all they know. They don't improve their situation for their kids and it's an ongoing cycle.
It's a different world today and people should be a lot more responsible before having kids.
Posted on 12/20/17 at 2:47 pm to BluegrassBelle
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Would you prefer me to be knocked up out of wedlock and letting you pay for my kids?
I was knocked up out of wedlock, and I'm the only person thats ever paid for my kid, family and father included. not everyone fits that stereotype.
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That being said, I dont want anymore, and dont want to date men with young children. I busted my arse raising him, I dont have any desire to start over. That may make me selfish, but I dont really care.
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This post was edited on 12/20/17 at 2:54 pm
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