re: My fiancee cheated on me.

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while I'm home with our daughter

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Well, shite.... I don’t have kids so I don’t know how to identify 100% with you... but some people just suck.

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And I told her I forgave her, but I'm not sure why.

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It’s because you share flesh and blood that you created together, plus great memories you are reluctant to give up. You can retract this forgiveness.

I would tell you to go on some sort of retreat for 2 weeks to get your head in order, but the kid with her makes that a little tricky. Call your parents, siblings, and friends though for support, and definitely get a therapist.

If you need anything else to talk about omlandshark@gmail.com

EDIT: and as others have suggested call up an attorney as well. At least she won’t be getting half your shite, so that’s a big bright side.