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re: What's the most interesting response you've gotten on a dating app?
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:31 pm to sweetwaterbilly
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:31 pm to sweetwaterbilly
"Wanna go halfsies on a bastard?"
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:32 pm to LadyTigress
quote:i promise you the aggressive messages work much more frequent than you think.. move that a decimal point or two.
I think that success rate is about .001%
I have a deactivated FB right now so not playing on the apps, but when I'm out of town for work and only there for a week I put a straight forward aggressive style into play. And i know off the bat if they are down to just have fun or not due to that. And I promise it doesn't take long at all to find something.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:33 pm to LadyTigress
quote:everything is a challenge sugartits
But is that like a challenge? Lol
Including you
Right now
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:34 pm to SuperSaint
That's disturbing. No wonder men aren't enticed to want a relationship... why are women so easy now? It's the end of western civilization as far as I can tell.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:36 pm to LadyTigress
quote:
That's disturbing.
quote:I will say that i think that women also have that 'it's a challenge' mentality, and even if I show that I'm just looking for a hook up they still may approach it as 'but he hasn't met me yet' or something like that.... women and men aren't all that different
why are women so easy now?
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:37 pm to LadyTigress
I don't over analyze it. I just think it's weird that's how dudes would try and approach a female. But as SS said, I guess it has to work for some or they wouldn't use it.
I'm too picky to just type that shite to a bunch of females. Plus, I'm not trashy. I think you have to be a little trashy to just ask that shite.
Maybe I'm getting old though.
I'm too picky to just type that shite to a bunch of females. Plus, I'm not trashy. I think you have to be a little trashy to just ask that shite.
Maybe I'm getting old though.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:39 pm to SuperSaint
I'll agree w that sentiment. And I get it, everyone wants a fun time. I'm just not convinced that this lifestyle, after years, leads to long-term happiness. Humans were not created to be alone for years and years into adulthood.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:40 pm to saint tiger225
Thank you! Yes, it is very trashy.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:41 pm to LadyTigress
I prefer the much more classy, a/s/l line.
Just kidding.
Just kidding.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:44 pm to LadyTigress
quote:weekend before last I listened to a podcast on the Ted Radio Hour called 'How We Love' , you should check it out. You'd probably like it.
LadyTigress
Had one segment where this Jewish chick in Philly used an algorithm to find her companion on dating websites. T'was interesting
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:47 pm to SuperSaint
Cool, thanks. I'll have to check it out!
I'm fascinated by the psychology of all of this; what people are after, after sex of course. How do we determine if we want more or not? And if we do, how/when do we go about it? In respect to how our generation meets and dates, we are a different breed.
ETA: this is why I have been drawn to lurk the OT off/on over the years. Wanting to learn how men view women. Here's what I've gathered:
1. #1 goal: PIIHB
2. "Make me a sammich."
3. OT 10 doesn't exist. An IRL hot woman is probably an OT 6.
4. Assume that all women will end up fat and bitchy and take all their money after kids and divorce and then chase BBC.
I know it's all a big joke... but it's kinda sad lol
I'm fascinated by the psychology of all of this; what people are after, after sex of course. How do we determine if we want more or not? And if we do, how/when do we go about it? In respect to how our generation meets and dates, we are a different breed.
ETA: this is why I have been drawn to lurk the OT off/on over the years. Wanting to learn how men view women. Here's what I've gathered:
1. #1 goal: PIIHB
2. "Make me a sammich."
3. OT 10 doesn't exist. An IRL hot woman is probably an OT 6.
4. Assume that all women will end up fat and bitchy and take all their money after kids and divorce and then chase BBC.
I know it's all a big joke... but it's kinda sad lol
This post was edited on 5/29/17 at 10:52 pm
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:52 pm to LadyTigress
quote:It really is crazy.
In respect to how our generation meets and dates, we are a different breed.
If you think back to old days, people were married and basically died married. Then, a gradual change started. More divorces, more cheating, etc etc.
Now, we're to a point where people can hide behind their phones and just type "you want to frick?".
Really, it's rare now days for there to be the old school gentleman/classy woman type. Just different times I guess.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:52 pm to LadyTigress
Ten 4
I'm with you on all that. It's fascinating to me as well.
Also y'all were talking about the 'trashy' stuff. Yeah I don't do the 'let's get to the chase' messages, I just am upfront even in my profile that 'I'm only in your town for X amount of days and looking to go hangout and have fun', and if they message me and want to hangout then that's them telling me they are down without having to say it.
I'm with you on all that. It's fascinating to me as well.
Also y'all were talking about the 'trashy' stuff. Yeah I don't do the 'let's get to the chase' messages, I just am upfront even in my profile that 'I'm only in your town for X amount of days and looking to go hangout and have fun', and if they message me and want to hangout then that's them telling me they are down without having to say it.
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:54 pm to LadyTigress
quote:you understand mindset behind this.....right?
#1 goal: PIIHB
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:56 pm to Rouge
Ummm.... yeah. Doesn't take a genius to get that
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:57 pm to LadyTigress
quote:then you tell the peanut gallery
Ummm.... yeah. Doesn't take a genius to get that
Piihb is the male litmus test. Why do you think that is?
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:57 pm to LadyTigress
quote:i don't see the joke
I know it's all a big joke
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:58 pm to sweetwaterbilly
Its been a while but..
Posted on 5/29/17 at 10:58 pm to SuperSaint
SuperSaint is correct... the bolder you are the more success you will have on apps Tinder as long as your visual SMV is high enough
You want to stand out? Just think about how many messages women get on Tinder from guys doing the same "play it safe, get to know her for a while before trying to escalate"
She has seen this over and over:
Guy: Hey, how is it going
Girl: Hi
Guy: NM, you
Girl: NM
Guy: So (insert generic get to know you question here)
By this time the girl is already bored out of her mind because she has seen this same conversation a million times. She is on Tinder to get action now, not talk to a guy for a few days before he even gets the idea to ask her out. If you aren't escalating with her, there will be another guy who is, and she will forget about you and go with the guy who is actually looking to escalate. Be direct and be bold.
You'd be surprised at how well going for the juggular... "I'm going to squeeze your arse like a stress ball".... "Your tits look fake" etc. will work. It's different from the boring shite she hears dozens of times a day on Tinder. If you want to have a generic boring "get to know her" conversation than go to Match or some website like that. Tinder is all about what can you do for me now, hence the word Tinder, which is a reference to striking while the iron is hot.
You want to stand out? Just think about how many messages women get on Tinder from guys doing the same "play it safe, get to know her for a while before trying to escalate"
She has seen this over and over:
Guy: Hey, how is it going
Girl: Hi
Guy: NM, you
Girl: NM
Guy: So (insert generic get to know you question here)
By this time the girl is already bored out of her mind because she has seen this same conversation a million times. She is on Tinder to get action now, not talk to a guy for a few days before he even gets the idea to ask her out. If you aren't escalating with her, there will be another guy who is, and she will forget about you and go with the guy who is actually looking to escalate. Be direct and be bold.
You'd be surprised at how well going for the juggular... "I'm going to squeeze your arse like a stress ball".... "Your tits look fake" etc. will work. It's different from the boring shite she hears dozens of times a day on Tinder. If you want to have a generic boring "get to know her" conversation than go to Match or some website like that. Tinder is all about what can you do for me now, hence the word Tinder, which is a reference to striking while the iron is hot.
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