re: I can predict from FB posts which of my female friends will leave their husbands

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they just get angry and try to get better at what they've been doing, which obviously isn't working, instead of expanding themselves and finding new areas to reach competency in. girls want to see a guy be good at different stuff and be adventurous and try new things with them so they can both work on it together

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Women are attracted to excitement, value, and confidence

It's why they are not attracted to men who try to win women over going the nice guy route. It's boring, its not exciting, it shows the man is not confident in himself, has little options, and risks rejection so he feels his best strategy is to worship the ground she walks on.

Yet, men are told from birth that the way to win over a woman is to be nice, caring, invest heavily in her, worship the ground she walks on, be "there" for her, and emotional.

The worst place you can take a woman on dates early in the process is out for dinner or a movie or something. That's not exciting. Girls just want to have fun. If you want her to be attracted to you, you need to do something that demonstrates your value, demonstrates your confidence, and shows you can have fun. If you have fun she will want to be a part of that. At dinner all you can do is talk(BORING), and that is not attractive. At a movie all you do is sit there and she is paying attention to the screen, not you, and you will be AMOG'ed by the male actors.

Take her to a shooting range, or a mini golf course, or to a paintball park, rock climbing, somewhere where you can have fun, excitement, show off your value and confidence, and there is some element of risk.