re: I can predict from FB posts which of my female friends will leave their husbands

Years and years of him refusing to get treatment for debilitating depression. Or a job. I became his caregiver, not his wife. I tried incredibly hard to help him, but after several years of him canceling doctor appointments, drinking too much, & staying in bed all day, he was going to drown me with him. Leaving was the hardest thing I've ever done, since I felt codependently responsible for him. I think he's doing better now. It forced him to do things for himself.

No kids.