re: I wonder how oppressed women feel

well back to a serious response

your comment about negotiation has a term in the feminist lingo

it's like "the super woman" or something. they're using it to attack Ivanka

basically the argument is that SOME women are amazing and can do all these amazing things and they cannot speak for feminism b/c it creates an ideal that all women can do this, which reinforces the partriarchy and "right wing" beliefs about self determination

the argument is essentially that Ivank cannot be a feminist b/c she's done too well b/c she's legitimately really good at living her life. they are setting the bar really high for their followers