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re: Question about popping the question

Posted on 11/17/16 at 1:35 pm to
Posted by baseballmind1212
Missouri City
Member since Feb 2011
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Posted on 11/17/16 at 1:35 pm to
im in a similar boat or will be soon. I'm 25 my SO is almost 30. We have been dating for about 2 years and are pretty serious. She is moving with me when I graduate in the Spring.

you have to make your intentions clear. I told mine not to expect to be married for at least another 2 years. I need a year trial of living together plus at least another year to plan a wedding. I have also made it clear that I will not make myself miserable to stay with her just because she is moving with me. If I am not happy I will send her packing.

Seems a little rough but we only see each other 2x a week for a couple hours at a time due to our work schedules and my school schedule. Safe to say I am a little nervous about moving in together
Posted by Geauxdhan08
Baton Rouge, LA
Member since Oct 2015
357 posts
Posted on 11/17/16 at 1:39 pm to
That's another thing, when we first started dating I made it clear I felt like it would be 8 years until I would have an established career and feel ready to get married, over these five years the seats been getting hot though.

- that's very close to our exact situation, but we've already lived together 2 years, then she graduated nursing school and now lives/works in Lafayette so we only see each other a couple days a week
This post was edited on 11/17/16 at 1:42 pm
Posted by shel311
McKinney, Texas
Member since Aug 2004
111265 posts
Posted on 11/17/16 at 2:59 pm to
quote:

plus at least another year to plan a wedding.
Not many dudes excited about the idea of 1 year of wedding planning.

quote:

Seems a little rough but we only see each other 2x a week for a couple hours at a time due to our work schedules and my school schedule
After 2 years, that's pretty strange IMO.
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