re: Any OTers With Long Distance Shared Parenting Agreements

I don't have any experience here, but 2 hours of lawyer time is 1 flight worth of expense. So you'll probably just be better off paying for the flights or whatever your wife won't pay for. I would be surprised if you can't get close to splitting the costs. Also, it may be better for her to spend more time in fewer stays than doing more shorter stays.