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re: The logic of cheaters

Posted on 8/26/16 at 7:27 am to
Posted by Steadyhands
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Posted on 8/26/16 at 7:27 am to
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Seems to be a common theme that I may/may not have experience in...


Do you or don't you have experience in this? Did you spy on the girl that cheated on you?

Cheating is almost always the result of a failed relationship. So in a sense there is some shared blame, but the person who cheated bailed out when they should have discussed whatever the problem was with their SO.
This post was edited on 8/26/16 at 7:39 am
Posted by jvilletiger25
jacksonville, fl
Member since Jan 2014
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Posted on 8/26/16 at 8:11 am to
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Cheating is almost always the result of a failed relationship. So in a sense there is some shared blame



There is no excuse for cheating, so there is no shared blame.
Posted by Hog on the Hill
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Posted on 8/26/16 at 1:04 pm to
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Cheating is almost always the result of a failed relationship. So in a sense there is some shared blame
No, that's not how it works. Like you said, the cheater should have talked about the problems instead of cheating. That's why it's inexcusable and why there is NOT shared blame.

Often, the cheater is unable or unwilling to discuss the problems of the relationship, and they seek out what they feel is missing from their relationship without actually trying to make their relationship work and giving it a fair shot.

The problems in the relationship are the fault of both parties (usually), but cheating is a decision made by ONE person in the relationship, and so it's only their fault.
Posted by SuperSaint
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Member since Sep 2007
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Posted on 8/26/16 at 2:12 pm to
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Cheating is almost always the result of a failed relationship
dont go too far out on a limb bro... I think I agree with you. If there is cheating, I think the relationship is failed.
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