re: The wife getting over-weight

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Get yourself in amazing shape and she will follow your lead.

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Maybe, maybe not. She might not have the desire or feel the need to get in better shape.

If you have kids, will she resent the time you spend working out instead of helping with the kids or working around the house?

If you get in shape, you'll be a walking reminder that she isn't in shape. She's a woman - no one can say how she will respond.