re: Getting married in April- advice guys

Not being cynical, but sign some sort of pre nuptial financial agreement. You can say you won't ever need it but if you do ever divorce it will be the best thing you ever did.

If your SO balks, Don't let her say that it will doom your marriage. Sign it and put it in a drawer and never look at it again. Plus if she has a daughter it will be to her benefit as well.