re: Need Miscarriage Advice (update Pg 3, Miscarriage Official)

I've been that guy before, while I cant speak for him I can tell you about our experience. My wife was pregnant with our #3 and some friends of ours were pregnant with their #3 as well. We both have two other boys of the same ages. We unfortunatly lost ours and they carried to term and now have their 3rd son. We never resented them, though my wife blamed herself. Nothing was held against them, but we did try to avoid reading their posts on facebook. This happened almost 3 years ago and it still hurts like yesterday sometimes. I would never want to detract from your happines of having a child, even though we weren't as fortunate. My advice would be to keep them in mind, but dont let them make you want to hide your joy.