re: Any Married, Separated, Engaged or Single Males Here? An Important Tip...

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i was single. then i got engaged. then i got married. haven't dealt with the separated/divorced part yet.

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I was separated for a few days.

I got married at 21 (absolutely too young) and we both went through some big changes in our late 20s that prompted a near divorce.

I was prepared to take a job out of town without her or my son, but thought better of it and stayed to work it out. Best decision of my life. Rough few years, but we're extremely happy now.

While, I think there's a lot of value being offered here, working it out is not the worst option, and needs to be tried more. obviously some bitches be crazy and guys be a-holes and it can be unavoidable, but people need to try harder. Not directed at anybody on this thread, just in general.