re: Just found out my best friend is cheating on his fiancee *Upd8 it happened again

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He's actually cheated on her in the past before they were engaged. She found out and wasn't happy, but kept him around. Now he's banging an OT 3 on the side. We are both grad students and his fiancee is 5 hours away. He has no clue I know. I feel like I need to tell her, but not sure how without ruining our friendship.
Dear Diary.

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Sorry your dad left early without equipping you for life.

See if you can find a male mentor to teach you how to make calls on real-life issues all by yourself. You might want to make sure they understand it won't be a sexual relationship*, with your track record a request from you might easily be mistaken.

*Unless that's want you want, I guess. Then the OP makes more sense.