re: Question to OT about an old flame

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Is there a possibility that there is something still there (I have moved on and have a great little deal now and dont wish to go back in time)?

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Then don't. Doesn't matter. She's engaged.

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Has this happened to anyone else?

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I'm sure it has many times.

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Does she just consider me to be a good friend?

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Don't know. You could ask her.

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I feel like had college not let out for the summer that year, things may have been different, at least for the rest of our college experience together.

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Maybe so, but it didn't happen. I'm not convinced you've moved on. You need to, though. Even if she is interested, you need to stay the hell away from her in any way other than as a friend to her because she's your good friend's wife to be.

I'm not sure why you even need to ask these questions. It's over between the two of you and it needs to stay that way. Move on and stop trying to analyze her behavior such that you believe she's lamenting that you two never went farther in your relationship than you did. She chose to hook up with your good friend. She wasn't thinking of you at the time.