re: Update (w/a twist): This girl wants a first date that isn't a bar or restaurant.

First dates are a test. Find out two things: How cool is she, How confident is she in herself. Give this a shot: Take her to good will, yall pick out what each other is going to wear on date and you can have fun with it. If she is insecure about it or cant have fun with that then she is probably a drag and single at 31 for a reason.

After picking out crazy clothes to wear head downtown, get some frozen yogurt, walk around and talk to each other. You will learn everything you need to know to see if you want to pursue second date