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re: Girlfriend has gay friend

Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:18 pm to
Posted by SabiDojo
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Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:18 pm to
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Saw a picture of him and was told he doesn't look or act gay


That's highly suspicious. All homo men have a lisp and suffer from limp wrist.

He's railing her....hard. Probably harder and longer than you ever have.
Posted by SabiDojo
Open to any suggestions.
Member since Nov 2010
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Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:19 pm to
quote:

I'm willing to bet that OP has never actually met or hung out with someone that is gay


Oh, come on, nurse. I'm sure he has a mirror.
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:20 pm to
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Never met him. Saw a picture of him and was told he doesn't look or act gay. That's


Obviously you're threatened by him. Something tells me he's not a 300lb land monster or you wouldn't be this concerned... Probably wanna schedule a date with him and the gf... This way you can put all your worries to rest or confirm your suspicions. Either way your poisoning your relationship by letting this worry you.
Posted by Superior Pariah
Member since Jun 2009
8457 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:21 pm to
I think she should be worried about you blowing her gay friend.
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:22 pm to
Known a few but no don't regularly hang out with gay ppl. I'm not some homophobic arse though. It doesn't bother me at all. It's more about..1 believing intentions are pure and 2 hearing about it made me feel like the perception is bad. I guess that makes me insecure...can't help it just didn't like it.

I see everyone's point though. Thanks
Posted by bigberg2000
houston, from chalmette
Member since Sep 2005
70120 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:22 pm to
You are a controlling idiot.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
66133 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:22 pm to

There's no way he's had a gay acquaintance. Who would complain other than here??
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129071 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:24 pm to
True....he would worry about what others thought if he was seen out having drinks with a gay man in company. Friends would start texting others about it apparently.
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
66133 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:26 pm to
Guys, read the women responding. Trust me.

Shelby Stanga wouldn't give two shits.
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 4:27 pm
Posted by TigerBait2008
Boulder,CO
Member since Jun 2008
32581 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:27 pm to
Bad troll..been done before.
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
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Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:28 pm to
quote:

nown a few but no don't regularly hang out with gay ppl. I'm not some homophobic arse though. It doesn't bother me at all. It's more about..1 believing intentions are pure and 2 hearing about it made me feel like the perception is bad.


One thing you'll learn if you actually have gay friends is that your gf having a gay guy friend is probably one of the best things possible. She can have a guy to vent to, do stupid girly shite with, and they hang out at gay bars where she has much less chance of being hit on. You should relish the fact that your gf has a gay friend.
Posted by BoxmanTiger
Ohio
Member since Dec 2013
666 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:28 pm to
Ok last question then bc I think the point is slightly missed. If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable?

I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13531 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:30 pm to
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It's more about..1 believing intentions are pure


So you're not sold on him really being gay
Posted by wildtigercat93
Member since Jul 2011
112483 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:30 pm to
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Ok last question then bc I think the point is slightly missed. If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable? I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.


Okay, you're officially just trolling.
Posted by SpiderY2Bannana
Louisiana
Member since Mar 2013
474 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:31 pm to
I'm with BoxmanTiger. He should be VERY affraid.

The Gays are Recruiting
Posted by Sao
East Texas Piney Woods
Member since Jun 2009
66133 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:32 pm to
quote:

Ok last question then bc I think the point is slightly missed. If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable? I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.


Holy. shite.

You're worried gay man is going to point out hotter men to hetero GF, aren't you
Posted by AU4real35
Member since Jan 2014
16065 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:32 pm to
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So you're not sold on him really being gay


This.
Posted by jg8623
Baton Rouge
Member since Aug 2010
13531 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:32 pm to
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I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.


If you wanna be all PC then yea, a guy is a guy is a guy

But him being gay is definitely a strong point in this scenario. If it was just some random dude you've never met and she's out hanging with him then yes it would be completely different. You obviously aren't sure this dude is gay...
Posted by rintintin
Life is Life
Member since Nov 2008
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Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:33 pm to
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If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable? 


That's a totally different story unless they are long time friends.

My gf's best friend is a guy, but they've been friends long before we were together. She's gone to concerts and bars with him and it doesn't bother me one bit.

She's even asked me to go and I've passed and let them go by themselves.
Posted by lsunurse
Member since Dec 2005
129071 posts
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:37 pm to
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If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable?



One of my very good friends is a guy. Was friends with him years before I met my husband. He doesn't live in the same state as me but if he did I'm sure I would hang out with him at times without my husband present and my husband would not care at all. My husband knows him and gets along with him and has hung out with him as well(without me there). Guy was at our wedding and in charge of getting my husband to our ceremony on time.


My husband was friends with a female that he used to work with. They stayed friends after she moved on to another job. They were always just friends only and would go to church together before I met him. Once we started dating my husband made sure to introduce me to her so I would realize she posed no threat. I got along great with her and had no issues with them hanging out for happy hour just the two of them (I was always invited but sometimes I did have to work). She moved to another state and they lost touch...but if she still lived here I trust my husband and wouldn't care if he saw her again without me there.


You either trust your SO or not. You can't prevent them from cheating. If they are gonna cheat...they are gonna cheat whether it's with someone they know or some random stranger in a bar.
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 4:39 pm
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