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re: Girlfriend has gay friend
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:18 pm to BoxmanTiger
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:18 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Saw a picture of him and was told he doesn't look or act gay
That's highly suspicious. All homo men have a lisp and suffer from limp wrist.
He's railing her....hard. Probably harder and longer than you ever have.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:19 pm to lsunurse
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I'm willing to bet that OP has never actually met or hung out with someone that is gay
Oh, come on, nurse. I'm sure he has a mirror.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:20 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Never met him. Saw a picture of him and was told he doesn't look or act gay. That's
Obviously you're threatened by him. Something tells me he's not a 300lb land monster or you wouldn't be this concerned... Probably wanna schedule a date with him and the gf... This way you can put all your worries to rest or confirm your suspicions. Either way your poisoning your relationship by letting this worry you.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:21 pm to BoxmanTiger
I think she should be worried about you blowing her gay friend.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:22 pm to lsunurse
Known a few but no don't regularly hang out with gay ppl. I'm not some homophobic arse though. It doesn't bother me at all. It's more about..1 believing intentions are pure and 2 hearing about it made me feel like the perception is bad. I guess that makes me insecure...can't help it just didn't like it.
I see everyone's point though. Thanks
I see everyone's point though. Thanks
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:22 pm to BoxmanTiger
You are a controlling idiot.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:22 pm to lsunurse
There's no way he's had a gay acquaintance. Who would complain other than here??
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:24 pm to Sao
True....he would worry about what others thought if he was seen out having drinks with a gay man in company. Friends would start texting others about it apparently.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:26 pm to lsunurse
Guys, read the women responding. Trust me.
Shelby Stanga wouldn't give two shits.
Shelby Stanga wouldn't give two shits.
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 4:27 pm
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:27 pm to BoxmanTiger
Bad troll..been done before.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:28 pm to BoxmanTiger
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nown a few but no don't regularly hang out with gay ppl. I'm not some homophobic arse though. It doesn't bother me at all. It's more about..1 believing intentions are pure and 2 hearing about it made me feel like the perception is bad.
One thing you'll learn if you actually have gay friends is that your gf having a gay guy friend is probably one of the best things possible. She can have a guy to vent to, do stupid girly shite with, and they hang out at gay bars where she has much less chance of being hit on. You should relish the fact that your gf has a gay friend.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:28 pm to lsunurse
Ok last question then bc I think the point is slightly missed. If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable?
I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.
I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:30 pm to BoxmanTiger
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It's more about..1 believing intentions are pure
So you're not sold on him really being gay
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:30 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Ok last question then bc I think the point is slightly missed. If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable? I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.
Okay, you're officially just trolling.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:31 pm to BoxmanTiger
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:32 pm to BoxmanTiger
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Ok last question then bc I think the point is slightly missed. If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable? I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.
Holy. shite.
You're worried gay man is going to point out hotter men to hetero GF, aren't you
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:32 pm to jg8623
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So you're not sold on him really being gay
This.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:32 pm to BoxmanTiger
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I only ask bc ppl are ppl gay or not and shouldn't just look at it that way, bc you never know what ppl are thinking.
If you wanna be all PC then yea, a guy is a guy is a guy
But him being gay is definitely a strong point in this scenario. If it was just some random dude you've never met and she's out hanging with him then yes it would be completely different. You obviously aren't sure this dude is gay...
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:33 pm to BoxmanTiger
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If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable?
That's a totally different story unless they are long time friends.
My gf's best friend is a guy, but they've been friends long before we were together. She's gone to concerts and bars with him and it doesn't bother me one bit.
She's even asked me to go and I've passed and let them go by themselves.
Posted on 5/30/15 at 4:37 pm to BoxmanTiger
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If he wasn't gay and they still had drinks together by themselves and worked out together, but just friends would that be ok with you or would you be uncomfortable?
One of my very good friends is a guy. Was friends with him years before I met my husband. He doesn't live in the same state as me but if he did I'm sure I would hang out with him at times without my husband present and my husband would not care at all. My husband knows him and gets along with him and has hung out with him as well(without me there). Guy was at our wedding and in charge of getting my husband to our ceremony on time.
My husband was friends with a female that he used to work with. They stayed friends after she moved on to another job. They were always just friends only and would go to church together before I met him. Once we started dating my husband made sure to introduce me to her so I would realize she posed no threat. I got along great with her and had no issues with them hanging out for happy hour just the two of them (I was always invited but sometimes I did have to work). She moved to another state and they lost touch...but if she still lived here I trust my husband and wouldn't care if he saw her again without me there.
You either trust your SO or not. You can't prevent them from cheating. If they are gonna cheat...they are gonna cheat whether it's with someone they know or some random stranger in a bar.
This post was edited on 5/30/15 at 4:39 pm
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