re: divorce court question

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Even if she proves adultery, who cares. The only thing it would do in this scenario is speed up the divorce. Judgment is granted immediately at trial without the need to wait 365 days.

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Exactly, which is why in my divorce I did not file on the grounds of adultery, which could have easily been proven. It doesn't really mean anything - I know he did it; he & his side piece and everyone else in the free world know they did it - and it was not beneficial to me at all, monetarily, to speed up the divorce. ... I did, however, maintain my right to go back for permanent alimony.