re: who's worse: elitist snobs, or those who revel in their lack of refinement?

I've been to some down the bayou weddings, and they were nothing short of a terrible experience, but they never "tried" to be tacky. Like there wasn't exchanging of shotguns, or everyone decked out in camo. Just a lot of crappy people gathered in one place.

My mom's side of the family has quite a few trashy individuals. They aren't the type to revel in their lack of refinement, but I can guarantee that they think I'm an elitist snob. I don't do anything in particular, but my mom married into a decent family and they think that we believe we are better than them. We are, but we don't do anything in particular to make them feel that way besides not become crack-heads and such.