re: Still waiting on my return from 2013

I missed the part where you said you filed HoH status in 2012. If you were living with your wife, and not in the extended process of a divorce, you can't do that. Poodlebrain is right.

However, I would have thought you would have received some notice regarding your 2012 return.

When you contact the IRS, ask them if the issue is related to your 2012 or 2013 return.