re: OT dating experts...Need your advice trying...

First, you should send a text asking for her email address and all future communication should be done through email. Email is less intimate and shows that you care less, kind of like hard to get. Then ask her if she wants to hang out some time, then when the time comes tell her to meet you in a chat room on the internet and that you "might stop by". It shows that you don't give a frick. If you do feel the need to see her in person, send a friend instead to just meet up with her in your place. If you go yourself, you'll look desperate.