re: Anyone know people who choose to be miserable?

Just a casual observer to this thread...I didn't think Paige's initial post was over the top. I can't and will never be able to imagine what losing a child is like, so not having a certain amount of empathy makes sense to me because I will never understand it. However, Paige, you lost all credibility when you cowered in a corner and started threatening Wink. That was uncalled for and made you look foolish. Your initial response was ok; you didn't need to feel defensive. I understood it, as harsh as that opinion may have been. But I think you were getting called out for a long history of "look-at-me" posts. Just my opinion. I did get where you were coming from initially and I thought maybe 33 had lost a child and that was why you got such a harsh reaction.