re: So my wife received a call from one of our child's classmates mother

We are dealing with the same thing, sort of. This nut job, I'll call her peanut lady, has a child with nut allergies and we follow the school guide lines on this to the letter. Peanut lady has actually been going to school at lunch time and checking the kids lunches to try and enforce her own much more restrictive guide lines for lunches. Last week, this wanker actually took lunches from several kids and threw them away before they asked her to leave. What a nightmare she is.